Hey guys I think I need some help. I met this HB9 at a party 2 weeks ago and escalated quickly. It was a fun first meeting, no kiss close or anything. Not even a number close, because I was leaving with another girl. Saw her at the bar last Thursday and got her number. She was flirting and whatnot and so was I, got her number and texted her yesterday to meet up at the bar for drinks. When I got to the bar, I had to wait because she took forever but she later texted me saying some drama happened and she had to bring her roommate. I was cool with that and decided to get wasted by myself for the time being lol. She arrives, looking...got damn smoking lol. Calling me baby and whatnot, we talk. Invited her to hang with me the next day cause I'm grilling with some friends. She says maybe, she has to get her hair done and whatnot. Eye contact is good though, everything is good. Somehow we got on the topic of her ex and how he is a ass and kicked her out for another girl. But I told her forget him, and also you're a grown woman. You make your decisions and you can go back to him or not. Whatever. She seemed surprised and intrigued with this answers but decided to go to the bar and drink with her friend all night. I decided to talk to other people at the bar because I knew alot of people there. But would come over and hug her, talk to her and whatnot. Now my problem is, I was wasted. She cuddled with me, laid her head on my shoulder later the night but I think I grabbed her a little to aggressively for her. She told me that I was too aggressive and that if her roommate wouldn't have came she would be drunk and more receptive because she was mad sober. I told her I didn't know she wasn't gonna get drunk because originally she told me she was gonna get wasted with me, without anyone else. So I assumed that and got wasted, but the roommate came and this is what happened. I said I'd give her space, and went to talk to other friends. But when I did a couple minutes I would see her talking and flirting with two other guys. I ended up leaving and told her bye and she said bye like no big deal. No goodbye hug or anything. Lol oh well. I left drunk and pissed and called a friend who gave me advice to text her and apologize and say "I really want to get to know you". My pride won't let me do that just yet, but guys. Should I text her that? Apologize? Or ask her on a date? I think she's looking to date and honestly I was looking to just have sex lol. But what should I do? Now that I think about this, I think this was a first date but some things went down. I don't wanna look like a chump, because I don't know if she left with another guy. I doubt she's that type of girl but you never know!