Re: Reverse one-itis issue (the girls)
If you don't want a relationship, then tell her that you don't want one. There is nothing wrong with being bold and telling the truth. If you want to keep her around, suggest an open relationship. If she says no, then you move on.
Originally Posted by Infrared
As I've realized time and time again, however, there will come a point where you need to make one choice or another. You can probably continue to string them on for a bit, but eventually they will get tired. At this point, both of them will leave, and you will have nothing. Just remain conscious of this thought when you are deciding what to do in this situation.
"There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X