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    Question Reverse one-itis issue (the girls)

    Wadup I haven't been very active on here lately gents!

    I found a good deal of success on POF, one girl who basically became my booty call type (though she won't admit it lol) and I can't kick like I bad habit.
    I pretty much tried to shun her away as I was working on new options, but she just keeps sending me very seductive messages (not the problem, we both agreed we are a couple of pervs haha)

    The issue is a new girl I been dating, I like but not long term like. I'm tryin to keep my options open n she's always accusing me of seeing other girls.. which I'm not now but I still want to and regularly do pickup.

    I like her n am on the verge of laying her.. have been to the front door lol.. but she def talks to me very relationship like n I don't want to give her the wrong impression. She even said the other day she thinks she likes me more than I like her n stuff, and said she wouldn't mind walking away lol.

    Yet I'm keepin her on my dial. Agh I think I led her on and kind of stuck in a limbo stage, I like her enuf to keep her around for awhile but don't wanna hurt her now that I took it this far. Its been a couple of months now of dating. She also has a baby girl!
    She's kind of conservative like, and asian (not to stereotype anything but traditional like)

    I know this sounds a little AFC of me but I don't know how to deal with this now. Seems like she's got one-it is on me and don't think I can explain how I want to date other girls on the reg for now.

    Hmm any ideas on how to sway this a bit? Thanks y'all

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    Default Re: Reverse one-itis issue (the girls)

    Quote Originally Posted by Infrared View Post
    I like her n am on the verge of laying her.. have been to the front door lol.. but she def talks to me very relationship like n I don't want to give her the wrong impression. She even said the other day she thinks she likes me more than I like her n stuff, and said she wouldn't mind walking away lol.

    Yet I'm keepin her on my dial. Agh I think I led her on and kind of stuck in a limbo stage, I like her enuf to keep her around for awhile but don't wanna hurt her now that I took it this far. Its been a couple of months now of dating. She also has a baby girl!
    She's kind of conservative like, and asian (not to stereotype anything but traditional like)

    I know this sounds a little AFC of me but I don't know how to deal with this now. Seems like she's got one-it is on me and don't think I can explain how I want to date other girls on the reg for now.

    Hmm any ideas on how to sway this a bit? Thanks y'all
    If you don't want a relationship, then tell her that you don't want one. There is nothing wrong with being bold and telling the truth. If you want to keep her around, suggest an open relationship. If she says no, then you move on.

    As I've realized time and time again, however, there will come a point where you need to make one choice or another. You can probably continue to string them on for a bit, but eventually they will get tired. At this point, both of them will leave, and you will have nothing. Just remain conscious of this thought when you are deciding what to do in this situation.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    Default Re: Reverse one-itis issue (the girls)

    Hey your right Swagman, I gotta be upfront with it, I been tip toeing around the situation too much.
    Might as well not waste her time or mine n keep movin forward. As far as the fb is concerned, I'm not worried about her.. she comes and goes as she wants for the most part. Guess I just don't wanna fuck the oneitis girl then chuck her which is a little too bold.
    Ima be more direct n keep seekin the hbs for now ha.

    Thanks man cheers


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