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Thread: Pick Up Artist That Thinks She Might Be The One Lol.

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    Default Pick Up Artist That Thinks She Might Be The One Lol.

    Hey my friends, yesterday I asked for advice in what I should do with a certain girl. You can use this link http://www.puaforums.com/ask-expert/...oes-wrong.html if you are interested to read all the crap I posted.

    But I really, really like this girl...it's blowing my mind and confusing me because these past weeks I messed with so, so many girls that I have no feelings for at all. And I really want to take her out again because I messed up our first date with me being wasted and her being sober. Texted her apologizing next morning to which she replied "It's ok, no worries". And I didn't reply back that day. I had friends telling me I should call her and say "let me make it up to you". I really want to text her. Should I text her telling her to meet up with me like "What are your plans? Let me treat you to a dinner?" I'm trying hard to be a better guy. Not a asshole like everyone thinks. Or just move on and get back to the other ladies lol.

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    Default Re: Pick Up Artist That Thinks She Might Be The One Lol.

    Also I'm so confused. This girl is gorgeous and everytime we look in each others eyes it's something I can't explain. It doesn't happen with the other girls. I haven't had oneitis in a while and I think I caught a case lol.

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    Default Re: Pick Up Artist That Thinks She Might Be The One Lol.

    Man up before you lose your head and fuck it up. You're letting your emotions get the best of you. If you like her try to date her... but seriously stop seeming so needy.

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    Default Re: Pick Up Artist That Thinks She Might Be The One Lol.

    Nah I man up 24/7! *slaps himself* Haha. The problem is I have a PUA mindset. I had it on the first date, and I automatically assumed I would get in her pants while she imo really wanted to get to know me. And I'm really thinking about just getting a girlfriend. I haven't been in a relationship in 3 years. I also haven't been needy to her at all. I let her do her own thing. I just feel like I messed up on the first date and just wanna see her again. What I want to know is what should I text or say while still keeping a PUA mindset or whatever so I don't come off as "needy" like you say or whatever.

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    Default Re: Pick Up Artist That Thinks She Might Be The One Lol.

    Okay, Have you tried a freezeout? That's what I would do in this situation... Just let her forget about it happening and down the road (week or two) invite her out again. See what happens, other than that I'm not sure an apology would do you any good unless she is already hooked.

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    Default Re: Pick Up Artist That Thinks She Might Be The One Lol.

    I asked her if she wanted to meet and get something to eat and she didn't reply. I over the oneitis already strangely. I'm not gonna worry about and pursue other girls for now. Although I don't know what will happen when time passes I'm good for now. Not stressing it. But I'm gonna try the freezeout method. Thanks man.

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    Default Re: Pick Up Artist That Thinks She Might Be The One Lol.

    I use freeze outs as a last resort. It's easy to say freeze out and not really think about alternatives. I think you should keep pushing.

    Don't worry about screwing up. It's gonna happen regardless. What's important is what do you do after you "screw up." Do you apologize endlessly or do you shrug your shoulders and say "Hey I'm human."

    Get her laughing then invite her out. Put her in a receptive mood first before doing an invite.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Pick Up Artist That Thinks She Might Be The One Lol.

    You're puttin her on a pedestal man, which is fucking up your chances with her and all those other girls. "If I just bag this chick I'll be happy" nah bro plenty of fish keep swimmin

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    Default Re: Pick Up Artist That Thinks She Might Be The One Lol.

    I'll try to keep it going with her. But I'm going out for drinks tonight so I'm gonna be back to having fun with the other ladies.


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