Yeah, so I was at a party doing my own thing when I come across 2 girls and some guy. I go up and jokingly suggest a 4 sum. To my surprise, they were actually totally into the idea. Me, having only had sex with one girl a couple years back, and being drunk, was like confused. Then one of the girls said right to my face that if we went to the upstairs of the frat house, she would have sex with me.
Here's my problem. I got pretty nervous at the moment. I had planned on bringing a girl back to my place where I had control over the environment. I didn't there, nor did I have a condom plus, again, I had been drinking and I was a bit nervous. I knew if I did it was gonna be a complete failure on my part. I pretty much couldn't. Then the guy kind of pushed me away and took the two girls and left. I was so mad I could have hit him, but I was more angry at myself for passing up an easy lay. I've never been a guy to randomly hook up. And even after getting more confidence with pickup, I still can't do it.
Has anyone had problems like this? Any advice on how to get over it?