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Thread: Failed F-close

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    Default Failed F-close

    Yeah, so I was at a party doing my own thing when I come across 2 girls and some guy. I go up and jokingly suggest a 4 sum. To my surprise, they were actually totally into the idea. Me, having only had sex with one girl a couple years back, and being drunk, was like confused. Then one of the girls said right to my face that if we went to the upstairs of the frat house, she would have sex with me.

    Here's my problem. I got pretty nervous at the moment. I had planned on bringing a girl back to my place where I had control over the environment. I didn't there, nor did I have a condom plus, again, I had been drinking and I was a bit nervous. I knew if I did it was gonna be a complete failure on my part. I pretty much couldn't. Then the guy kind of pushed me away and took the two girls and left. I was so mad I could have hit him, but I was more angry at myself for passing up an easy lay. I've never been a guy to randomly hook up. And even after getting more confidence with pickup, I still can't do it.

    Has anyone had problems like this? Any advice on how to get over it?

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    Default Re: Failed F-close

    Bro you choked. You went up there with cocky confidence and was totally dumbfounded when the group responded. Part of being a PUA/alpha is being able to handle any situation whether it being total rejection or total approval.
    You know what I probably would've done if she said she'd have sex with me? Thrown her over my shoulder and carried her upstairs. Serious.

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    Default Re: Failed F-close

    *laughs* Dude, always always always have condoms on you when you're going out hunting. (And make sure if you're keeping them somewhere like in your wallet that you change them often- heat and pressure degrades latex)

    Life's about making mistakes and learning from them. You tried a ballin' opener and it worked! Then you didn't know what to do next- but I bet over the next several hours you thought of a million ways you could have handled it better. Now you have a million ways of handling it better next time.
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    might as well unlock all the secret areas

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    Default Re: Failed F-close

    It's better to have them and not need them, than to need them and not have them. Trust me. Always carry them with you. I wouldn't have taken it simply because I didn't have any protection. As PUAs we have to be like boy scouts and prepare beforehand. One of the simplest ways to prepare is to carry those with you. And shower. Showers are always good lol.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Meh, fck it man that seems kinda sloppy. You did well. Apply that initial confidence to every situation and you won't have to be hung up on one (less than ideal) encounter.


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