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Thread: I've been played - how do I handle this, help!

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    Default I've been played - how do I handle this, help!

    Hey guys,

    I've been dealing with this girl for a month and I'm 99% sure she's been playing mind games with me, so much so that I saw her tweet right after I dropped her off " I'm playing dangerous games".

    Basically she stayed the night on 2 occasions and we fooled around naked (in her panties) and the whole time she was teasing me and making me chase her in my bed like a little puppy. she left me high and dry, and of course I was thinking more with my little guy then I was with my head.

    I had a hunch I was being played, i find it ironic that she tweeted this MSG "I'm playing dangerous games"
    Right after I dropped her off, and I think this reassures it.

    How do I handle this without looking weak?

    A. Do I call her out on it, give her a piece of my mind and move on to the next girl.
    B. or do I keep my mouth shut and move on.

    i really wants to tell this girl off, but to be honest I don't think she cares she'll just laugh it off.

    It feels really shtty to get played this way, I guess you live and you learn.

    I would greatly appreciate the advice.

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    Default Re: I've been played - how do I handle this, help!

    B. It doesn't matter to you, because you are preoccupied with other women who appreciate your time.

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    Default Re: I've been played - how do I handle this, help!

    Cut that girl out the rotation. Or out of your house.

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    Default Re: I've been played - how do I handle this, help!

    Freeze her out. Wait for her to come to you...

    If she doesn't then just cut her out of your life, she sounds like a twat anyway

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    Default Re: I've been played - how do I handle this, help!

    Freezing her out or just doing a take away is good there if results not what you want agreed cut your losses

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    Default Re: I've been played - how do I handle this, help!

    Hey Guys,
    Thanks for all the input, I already cut her off. Unfortunately this was a case of placing the V$G on the pedestal sexually and succumbed to her childish games. I’ve been in the game a long time and never encounter someone who plays mind games in the bed room. Throughout the month I noticed glimpses of two totally different personalities or intentions which were throwing me off a bit and I had this gut feeling that I was being played. She’s definitely playing a dangerous high risk game.
    My advice, follow your gut.
    Anyhow, thanks for replies!
    S

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    Default Re: I've been played - how do I handle this, help!

    Interesting, it makes me wonder what she would have done if you'd have called her on her bs?

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    Default Re: I've been played - how do I handle this, help!

    I'm wondering the same thing. She doesnít speak English very well, which is kind of why I had a hard time reading her, her texts were very unreceptive or short for that matter. She doesnít know that I'm aware of her "tweets" and for someone who came across very shy in person and unreceptive with texts, she is quite the social butterfly on twitter.
    She turned the tables on me at one point making me look like the bad guy for trying to seduce her.
    I noticed some red flags one night when I ran in to her at the bar and she was picking up another guy. I know itís a game but it just seemed out of character for someone who came across complete opposite.
    She definetely pulled the wool over my eyes, she is very deceiving.

    S

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    Default Re: I've been played - how do I handle this, help!

    Hmm sounds like a bit of bitch, fuck her haha.


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