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    Default didn't know what to say

    ok, so i've been busy with other things rather then just pickups lately, and am now out of practice for lets say, 5months?.. anyways, there was this women at my workplace, she's like a 9/10, although shes 26 years and im 18 :P.. she's really close friend with my friend from work aswell.
    i told him that i would do her if i had the chance, but didn't want to create chances, since i don't want anything related with any1 from work..i can find other girls somewhere else..

    anyways, we went out on our lunch break today, and i was sitting with my other m8 talking, and he arrived and she was sitting on another seat, but still kinda close to us

    he sat near her and after a while he called us and told us to sit near them.. my m8 immidiately went, so i couldn't stay where i was alone ... so i went and sat down near her..

    not even 10 seconds later he told her, this guy said he likes your ass, and like 3 other compliments, i didn't expect this at all, and all i could come up with was "you're going to make my face red ".. it didn't turn red at all cause im not shy, but i was caught so out of my moment.

    he later told me, that he did that to see how i would reply, since he knows i get girls.

    later i continued to think about what i should have said, and concluded it needed to be sarcasm like when he said "he likes your ass" i should have continued with something like "yep and i like her face and her figure and her name and her shoes and her dress haha..."?

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    turn it back on him, with something like "im guessing you were eagerly waiting for the lunch break to talk about her ass haven't you ?"


    any thoughts and ideas on how i should have replied pls cause i am not 1% happy with my thoughts afterwards and especially my reply..
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    Default Re: didn't know what to say

    Watch and embrace. Trust yourself


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    Default Re: didn't know what to say

    haha ty, but i dont have a problem to continue speaking to girls.. at all actually.. the only problem i had was that my friend kinda amoged me... and i needed something to say back to show him im better, but nothing came to mind at that time..
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    Default Re: didn't know what to say

    Unfortunately... i have had this happen often with a friend. Hes such a jerk.

    First off, before i forget... dump this friend. You dont need him. If he was just messing around, fine. But if he continues to amog you, he is obviously scared of your skills and must one up you in order to survive. Sorry if he was your good buddy or whatever but you dont need amogging jerks around.

    Anyway, the trick is always to have a goto look. A look that says "you're such a liar" or "really? Your making up bull now?" A look that says that he is living in a fantasy world. This look will help you stay alpha. Its not the greatest response but its better than nothing. Giving a look and staying silent gives nothing away while u consider a comeback.

    Follow it up by saying,"oh wow. This is news to me. Please let me know what else i said." I assume he was lying btw. Let him keep talking and his story will fall apart or he will admit to kidding. And then you can tell him that making up stories is fun. Then proceed to build up his bad qualities. "Ok cool. Now let me maje up a story... he is a great guy, so committed. I mean he's been a clerk without getting promoted for five years. That's dedication to not take a promotion at all. But he has to in order to pay his child support."

    Some of it can be made up lol.

    Also if she runs with what he said, run game on her. If she says "u think my butt is sexy? " try saying " i said it might be sexy. Didnt really get a good look. Why don't u stand up and we'll see?"
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    Default Re: didn't know what to say

    hahaha he only did this one time, just messing around i guess :P.. anyways it was like remembering the afc days.. horrible feeling haha :/

    thanks bro, hopefully i will get back on track after this little misfortune :P
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