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    Sharkey is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Help with building/sustaining attraction

    Hello everyone, My name is Sharkey.
    I've been on the field calibrating different methods/ideas since my early 20's. Out every weekend, and practicing day game at malls/ross stores haha etc... They call me Sharkey because I could never stay still, going from woman to woman to woman or club to club to club... I aged in the game so my energy changed too.. So I am seeking advice from people who have their calibration down. I don't need your advice if you're not calibrated. I've opened over 2000 sets, closed a lot less than that and I am still learning. Experts only, please.

    Today I come with not really a sticking point but advice on how to get better on something.

    Last Saturday I went to a more exclusive bar. (Meaning not ghetto) I was just hangin' out with my buddy Lemon. And I gave him my box of cigarettes in hopes to quit. I see these girls smoking so I get up and ask this group of 5 girls for a drag of their cigarette.
    Sharkey: How's your night going?
    *Body language My shoulders were aligned with Girl 1 - The set looked like a circle with a tail. Like a sperm. I was the tail. hahah.
    Girl 1: It's going good, thanks
    Stephanie: It's her birthday!
    Sharkey: Oh really, it's your birthday? *she nods* What year did you graduate highschool? *I asked cuz she looked a lot older than the rest of her friends*
    Stephanie: hahaha that's a good one *I ignored her*

    I met everyone and said, Nice to meet you and sat back down. They were all set up in proximity mind you. I chose the location to sit and they flocked around us. The reason I left was to display non neediness and to develop familiarity the next time I see them.

    So I come back after watching them get to the center of their cigarette.. and that's when I ask them for a drag.

    Sharkey: Can I get a drag?
    Stephanie: See! I knew Jonathan was gonna come back!
    Girls Collectively: Saying Hey!!
    Girl 1: yeah sure you can have a drag here*

    Lemon was just sitting with his back turned to us. I opened the set after seeing the use of proximity.

    Sharkey: This is my friend Lemon
    Lemon: turns head over his shoulder and says heyyy *gets acquainted*

    BAM we are locked in. Some of the girls go back inside..
    My style is more of a gentle nice guy/Tao style.. I can switch it up to Jeffries/David D... but I like being nice because it pleases me & I believe in good Karma.. Lemon is going by the book. Esp Mystery Model. He read for 3 years, now he's calibrating at 22y/o.

    So Lemon goes by the book and has the freakin best posture man.. We should all give him a standing ovation for leaning back and spreading his legs out all the way. yeahh, I used to do that until I realized that normal people don't do that sh*t hahahah w/e like I said, he's going by the book. I used to be a d bag, I had tons of dates because of it. I like being a gentleman because it sets me apart from the rest, and it fits my personality more. I still show her that I know how to turn her on emotionally in physically.

    I lean up against the planter, and Stephanie locks into me...
    Stephanie: I guess I should listen to you then Jonathan
    Sharkey: You can listen to whoever you want, You've already given me a smile so you've already given me everything I could ever want from you tonight
    Stephanie: She *blushes* and says that I'm soo nice

    We talked for a while.. I was pretty farked up after a while. And I ask my wing if he wants a drink or anything.. And she followed gave me a compliance test. She told me to stay there and wait for her. She was getting drinks for her and girl1 - who by the way, really likes Lemon!!!

    Anyway, Stephanie comes back and invites me and Lemon over to their VIP booth and we are all just chillin... ISO'd with a few girls in between and on the sides of us. -Trying to delve into our conversations. When Steph tried to talk to me a lil more I ignored her a bit to give the older birthday girl a lil attention. Turns out she's an amazing person! She does cosplay blah blah blah. yatta yatta yatta... still buzzin - Lemon is still talkin to his girl.

    The girls on the sides and standing want to dance. They get up and dance. Stephanie and the birthday girl get up and dance. Lemon follows and dances. I am a dancer, I dance to house. a Houser if you will. I am also a gentleman, I took off my jacket and folded it on my arm.

    Lemon: what are you doing?
    Sharkey: just dance with your girl, I will watch mine
    Lemon: okay

    Lemon dances, I am standing by the bar and my girl dances with her girls. The girls on the side pull our girls away and go back to their booth.

    Me and Lemon chill outside where we first met these girls.
    We switched girls somehow!!! and when I tried to switch steph turned into Lemon... and I thought to myself. okayy this b*tch wants to play... I said FLAME ON!!!
    I coulda swore she was really into my boy then I got a text from my bro, that he almost fought someone for trying to dance with his gf at a different bar. I look all pissed and "steph says what are you doing Jonathan?!" I had to call my bro. Anyway, come back and talk to girl1 about it. We all go back inside on my lead.

    I let Lemon talk to his girl. My girl was playin hard to get. I got this hot older womans phone number and twirled her around like a mutherfarker. flash flash flash. my girl was getting pissed... and another model chick from the very beginning was mad dogging all my ladies the whole time.

    I bring Lemon a water, and my girl pulls us four out to dance. She whispers something in the older woman's ears.
    I dance a lil with my girl but not too much. Lemon is freakin boogey man... boogeying the night away with his girl. My girl Steph then wants me to change the song... So again I comply. I said anything by 2Chainz... the Dj played the Birthday Song LOL... I explained to Steph that I did it for her.. she drops low... and infront of the whole room... I kissed her, kissed her, tried to tell me that she's not that easy... turns around dances more. comes back to me and kisses me. I wait a bit, and I leave...



    SO NOW

    It's Monday, this happened Friday. I am hooked like a motherfarker. Waiting it out. I called, no answer. texted, no answer. She is also not that easy. And I also have Lemon to set up our double date.

    I'd also like to see how you guys would have done things differently.

    Stephanie was a 9. She was almost as tall as me without heels. A bit taller with her boots on. Stephanie had an Angel face, not the biggest knockers but her booty was nice too.

    The persian girl that liked Lemon was shorter than me. She was an 8. And she was pretty fine too.

    I want more help on turning her on. Building more rapport while being a gentleman. I am on the boundaries of it. Thinking I should just drop the whole thing, but I like having class. I used to neg my 9's and 10's all day. They loved it. There were some really smart ones though and that fire in their comebacks...

    I need some help with building challenges, and generating more attraction... I'd also like to know how to sustain attraction since they cycle through emotions much faster than we as men.

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    Default Re: Help with building/sustaining attraction

    The most common challenge/rapport building technique I've used is "I have a hard time opening up because of my past." Of course you don't use this early, but close to the point where you are both open about your interest. It sounds like you are still in attraction phase according to MM. (Even if some feel it's outdated, it's a great guide if trying to figure out which parts of your game are missing.) So you have to qualify. Here is my intro on the subject. Hope this helps and good luck.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Sharkey is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Help with building/sustaining attraction

    You're right, sometimes it's necessary to go back to the basics. My style evolved from the social ladder. I completely over looked the fact that we subconsciously qualify the target before the interaction. I gushed a bit too.
    I elicited and deployed other tactics that kept her hooked.
    Now I feel like it's a waiting game.


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