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    Default White lies, Lies, or Honesty?

    I heard Style or Mystery mention something that lying is not lying in the game but "flirting." I'm not sure the exact quote but the idea was that you have to tell some white lies during your game.

    And so I've been telling some innocuous lies to girls here and there, to build image and get the date, n-closer or whatever. I'm wondering what sort of "white lies" you guys tell or to what extent you'll make things up, even the harmless stuff. And how you feel about it or is it cool for you.

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    Default Re: White lies, Lies, or Honesty?

    The exact quote you are thinking of comes from the Game, and it is "It isn't lying, it's flirting". I would pretty much say that I alternate between lies, white lies, and truths when it comes to flirting. Depending on how you use all three of them, they all do work.

    One recent example involved me using a personal ghost story as a hook for a conversation. The incident never happened, but it sure as hell worked when catching a girl's interest.
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    Default Re: White lies, Lies, or Honesty?

    I think it is at face value if you lie about something to bring your DHV way higher than it is it only hurts you. But flip side if you where like style using the line "if I wasn't gay you would so be mine" I kinda not going to hurt you and that was in a joking context.

    Like life though I imagine best is to use as much truth as possible, use confidence, and save the lies for the random get out of jail free. IE the good old does this dress make my ... Look big? Which in some cases you have to just get creative with the truth. Only use it when there is no real harm, in stated example sometimes you just need confidence more than a judgment.

    That is only my two cents, experts please correct me if I am inaccurate, after all that is how I learn
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    Default Re: White lies, Lies, or Honesty?

    We all do our little white lies. Usually it's in the form of exaggeration. So it's easy for her to recognize that it isn't true. I've told women before that, after a few days of not talking to them, I'll say that I missed them and why didn't they pick up my 15 calls. They know what kind of guy I am and always laugh cause they know I'm kidding around.

    But you should not lie about the serious stuff. If you are at all on the market for something serious (and I think most of us are) then it will bite you in the ass later. You never know which woman you talk to will become something more. If it does grow then you'll regret telling her that you work for NASA. lol.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: White lies, Lies, or Honesty?

    Thanks, guys. Great to hear. I love this site. Yeah, I can't believe some of the shit I have to do to hook them.


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