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    Default How to stop acting like an idiot - when to call?

    Well i have this thing, i guess it must happen to many guys, but im sick of it and id like to get it over with, so any advice would be cool

    every now and then i get a date with a very hot girl (much prettier than the standard i get) and i become a total asshole. im thinking of her all day long, dont want to work or study or do anything else but go out with her (and no way i want to fuck any of my fuck buddies having that one on my mind)

    its the kind of girl you meet on a sunday and by monday you want to call her...


    what would you guys do? im thinking on not calling till i fucking chill out a bit (could take 1 or more weeks), kinda leave the thought aside and continue living till i stabilize


    how long is too long of a wait? how short is too short?

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    Default Re: How to stop acting like an idiot - when to call?

    Quote Originally Posted by lucianoA View Post
    every now and then i get a date with a very hot girl (much prettier than the standard i get) and i become a total asshole. im thinking of her all day long, dont want to work or study or do anything else but go out with her (and no way i want to fark any of my fark buddies having that one on my mind)
    Judging by your story, you are not coming off as an asshole at all. You are just simply coming off as super needy and protective of her.

    Quote Originally Posted by lucianoA View Post
    what would you guys do? im thinking on not calling till i farking chill out a bit (could take 1 or more weeks), kinda leave the thought aside and continue living till i stabilize
    Forcing yourself to take a chill pill is one of the best ideas anybody can do. Right now, you have got some serious oneitis over this girl, by what I am reading here. Oneitis leads to deep emotions. Deep emotions lead to screw-ups and failure. When it comes to picking up women, there is not greater enemy to you than your emotions.

    If you want to have success with this girl, learn to trust your brain, not your heart.

    Quote Originally Posted by lucianoA View Post
    how long is too long of a wait? how short is too short?
    It depends on how long you feel the need to separate yourself from her. I don't feel it is necessary to give her a cold shoulder. She did nothing to you as of right now. If she initiates conversation, great, but don't jump all over it. Other than that, I would not wait for more than two or three days after your last encounter with her.

    What it simply comes down to is mindset. You have to remember that there are nearly 7 billion people in this world, and her significance in it is extremely minuscule when compared to it. And think about it, you will want this girl now, but what will happen once she's gone? When's the next time you'll say or think those same thoughts again? I can guarantee you that it won't be never.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    Default Re: How to stop acting like an idiot - when to call?

    thanks man! the thing is im completely aware of this, but i just cant seem to stop it.

    it has happened before, i fuck her a few times, i grow bored, next one... its not like i think im in love or anything.

    but i always seem to get in this state with the hotter ones, at least till i get tired of fucking them.

    so yeah, i guess chill it, wait the classic 2-3 days, casual texting and thats it

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    Default Re: How to stop acting like an idiot - when to call?

    Please clarify if I am wrong but it is ok to wait down your feelings two or three days. However, also depending upon how hot she is, remember, car salesmen have a saying the car you look at today and intend on buying tomorrow, someone else looked at yesterday and is brining in the money today.

    So the best advise is to get ones feelings in check but don't wait too long.


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