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Thread: Text calibration after insta date + kclose

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    Default Text calibration after insta date + kclose

    on sunday i insta dated a girl from the street, we went out for cofee and after a while we made out a bit (10 second kiss max). then she had to go. got her number.

    i texted her today

    hey S, hows that home schooling? (it was a bit of an inside joke that she didnt get)

    she answered, sorry, who is this

    i answered

    oh, i like to ask cute german girls (her) out on the street, i also seem to mistake romantic jewelery with secret drug stashes (i pointed out a lovely ring she had, that is was kinda romantic, and she opened it and told me its a little drug stash, it was a funny moment)

    and then we entered radio silence.


    as of now im a little uncertain on what to do, i mean girl, you kissed a guy on the street and now you dont answer messages? its not congruent

    my initial move was to ask her out tomorrow on my day off, but now i dont know if i should chill for a few days, or exactly how to proceed

    any help guys?

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    Default Re: Text calibration after insta date + kclose

    Isn't too many details. My guess would be she got buyers remorse. Watch out for that.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Text calibration after insta date + kclose

    major bullsh1t update:

    i get a response

    "mate, i believe she gave you the wrong number, stella tends to do that, dont take it personal"

    so she gave me a wrong number, but of someone she knows? i smell so much sh1t its unbelievable. even if i eventually get the girl its psycho behaviour... dammit, i dont know what to do.

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    Default Re: Text calibration after insta date + kclose

    Either she really gave the wrong number or she's doing it herself. Either way this one you gotta let go. Sorry man. There'll be others.
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    Default Re: Text calibration after insta date + kclose

    i'm interested in the, what if you texted her so she had ur number when she gave it to u, how things would've panned out cause that would've avoided alot of drama tbh

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    Default Re: Text calibration after insta date + kclose

    usually i know where i went wrong with game, so i can adjust and act better next time.

    however im kinda puzzled right now... i think ill give her a call tomorrow, just to try and figure it out


    you know the silver lining to this is that im never EVER making that newbie mistake again. i mean why kiss me and give me the wrong number, it didnt make sense to keep those kinda defenses up. man, game is relentless, if you relax for just a second you burn.

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    Default Re: Text calibration after insta date + kclose

    i mean why kiss me and give me the wrong number
    plenty of reasons, a few chicks i went clubbing with used to hookup with random guys and give them fake numbers just for the fun of it, they weren't looking for anything long term, this is just one reason theres alot more, but my advice u should always validate the number u get

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    Default Re: Text calibration after insta date + kclose

    anyways, besides this experience, i have a huge sticking point with D2's.

    i get a lot of flakes, lots of bullshit and i have a real problem setting it up. i dont even know if my mistake is on the first personal approach or in the post interaction communication (text/phone/facebook)

    is there any material, be it audio or text, that i can use to improve in this area? thanks!

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    Default Re: Text calibration after insta date + kclose

    update 2: i get home from class (didnt take my phone with me) and i have a missed call and a message from her, saying that its her friend's phone because she doesnt have a local phone (shes from germany, were in argentina)

    psycho.

    i texted her that i was home, that she could call me

    im all out of patience with this girl, damn if she wasnt that hot i wouldnt even have answered that last one


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