Re: I can't seem to find decent girls?
Well, I can certainly see that you're the type who has no problems with oneitis. The fact that you can avoid this is good. However, judging by the sounds of it, what you are pursuing is not a one night stand, but an actual relationship.
There's something that you have to realize about women.
There is no such thing as the perfect woman. No matter how hard you look, the woman that is going to be the best for you will still have some flaws. You need to sit down with yourself and figure out what traits you want to see in a woman. Then, from that list, shorten it down to the most important one.
My requirement is complicated and simple. In order for a woman to be game for me, she has to be free. This means that she can't restrict herself by any verbal, social, or religious standards. She could be super intelligent, dumb as a rock, a joker, or even a stiff, but if she has this particular trait, then she is good for me.
All you need to do is put some work towards your missions and goals. Figure out what you want in women, and you should be just fine.
"There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X