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    sidewinder89 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default I can't seem to find decent girls?

    Ok my basic problem at the minute is that I'm just plain bored of dating either turbo hot airheads or distinctly average looking intellectuals.

    I seem to have become incredibly picky all of a sudden and I'm at some what of a loss of what to do. I always pick flaws away at a girl until I'm just not interested..

    Plus, it's been a while since I've been out with a girl that genuinely excites me... I'm thinking maybe it's that I'm a little bored of being single now but I can't seem to find a girl that I actually want to be with long-term.

    Am i going nuts?

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    Default Re: I can't seem to find decent girls?

    Where do you live?

    Make a trip to sarge somewhere else.

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    Default Re: I can't seem to find decent girls?

    Well, I can certainly see that you're the type who has no problems with oneitis. The fact that you can avoid this is good. However, judging by the sounds of it, what you are pursuing is not a one night stand, but an actual relationship.

    There's something that you have to realize about women.

    There is no such thing as the perfect woman. No matter how hard you look, the woman that is going to be the best for you will still have some flaws. You need to sit down with yourself and figure out what traits you want to see in a woman. Then, from that list, shorten it down to the most important one.

    My requirement is complicated and simple. In order for a woman to be game for me, she has to be free. This means that she can't restrict herself by any verbal, social, or religious standards. She could be super intelligent, dumb as a rock, a joker, or even a stiff, but if she has this particular trait, then she is good for me.

    All you need to do is put some work towards your missions and goals. Figure out what you want in women, and you should be just fine.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    Default Re: I can't seem to find decent girls?

    Quote Originally Posted by sidewinder89 View Post
    Ok my basic problem at the minute is that I'm just plain bored of dating either turbo hot airheads or distinctly average looking intellectuals.

    I seem to have become incredibly picky all of a sudden and I'm at some what of a loss of what to do. I always pick flaws away at a girl until I'm just not interested..

    Plus, it's been a while since I've been out with a girl that genuinely excites me... I'm thinking maybe it's that I'm a little bored of being single now but I can't seem to find a girl that I actually want to be with long-term.

    Am i going nuts?
    Completely sane. You're just upping your standards and there's no problem with that. Swagman is right - you're looking for a relationship and that's not a bad thing.

    You picking at a woman's flaws is the right thing to do, believe it or not. See, when you're looking for something long term, you define what perfect is for you. By that logic, a perfect woman does exist, but you have to have a lot of patience...after all, why settle for someone less than perfect - especially when you decide what it is?
    Always leave her better than you found her.


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