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Thread: Whats the BEST method to recover from a bad phone call from a girl you like

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    Default Whats the BEST method to recover from a bad phone call from a girl you like

    So this girl and I agreed to meet up last night she was real excited to see me and she was gonna text me when she was ready so I can tell her where to meet me (i was with friends drinking) Soo 1230 rolls along I text her "hey take your time " sarcastically cuz she was taking too long..I got 4 missed calls from her cuz i was playing a game of beer pong and I finish the game I get call i answer--- "omg im sorry dont be mad at me..are you going to hate me" I was like "whos this, whos tis" well she hangs up..I call her back saying sorry i didnt check the caller id i iddnt know who it was then she repeats are you mad at me (pretty much saying i cant se ya) then I said umm well I might just remove you from facebook but thats it nothing crazy or i guess we'll see how you can make it up to me... (shes quiet) ok no I dont hate you i dont hate people but it does suck i did want to see you (shes silent)
    Me: okayy well i gotta go talk to you later and I hang up.

    Soo I know I was drinking but was I being too mean here, or is it just me? If I was..should I take a couple days off from contacting her(plus shes out of town for the weekend) unless she text me first and just act like nothing happened, remain normal and playful and go for another date in a couple days or what do you guys think?

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    Default Re: Whats the BEST method to recover from a bad phone call from a girl you

    The only real way to recover from this is to act like you didn't screw up at all. Coming from the mindset that you have to recover will likely get you to behave AFC.

    So just accept that you are human and that you aren't perfect. Don't kiss her ass and just realize that "Wow. That wasn't the way I planned on that convo going. Oh well." And just move on. It's already done. Accept it.

    I've been doing this for years and I still make mistakes here and there. It's not making mistakes that's important. It's how you handle them. Do you kiss her ass and apologize? Or do you accept that you are still human and it's not a big deal? Hope this helps and good luck.
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    Default Re: Whats the BEST method to recover from a bad phone call from a girl you

    I agree with the mindset and I plan on acting like it wasnt a big deal and pushing the interaction forward. I heard Rob Judge had said that if you ever feel like you kinda messed up, take a couple of days off from talking to her and then continue as if nothing happened. So this happened last night, I was thinking of maybe texting her sunday night
    " Hey (nickname optional), sorry about the other night. It was loud and I had trouble hearing you. When are you free next? I have a fun idea "
    what do you think?

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    Default Re: Whats the BEST method to recover from a bad phone call from a girl you

    Quote Originally Posted by riffman691 View Post
    " Hey (nickname optional), sorry about the other night. It was loud and I had trouble hearing you. When are you free next? I have a fun idea "
    what do you think?
    You're still apologizing and bringing up the other night. Just say "I have a fun idea. When are you free?"

    I've gotten away with texting her the very next day like nothing happened. And this was after we got mad at each other and said we didn't want to talk anymore. She was receptive and eventually she became my gf for some time. So yea I agree.
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    Default Re: Whats the BEST method to recover from a bad phone call from a girl you

    Ok awesome ill leave out the sorry part and just text her everything else tomorrow in the evening, ill keep ya posted

    Thanks!

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    Default Re: Whats the BEST method to recover from a bad phone call from a girl you

    So I sent out the text and she responed quite favorable
    "whats ur fun idea, I work mon through sat 2 to 9ish so any day after 9 should work"
    " I thought you were never gonna talk to me again! Im glad you are

    So thanks man!

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    Default Re: Whats the BEST method to recover from a bad phone call from a girl you

    Quote Originally Posted by riffman691 View Post
    " I thought you were never gonna talk to me again! Im glad you are
    Was that your reply?
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    Default Re: Whats the BEST method to recover from a bad phone call from a girl you

    WHOA! no lol all that was her from the whats the fun idea to the im glad you are...
    I replied with some funny detailed event then said or....ill just tell you the juicy details tomorrow for our date tuesday. so shes on board!


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