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Thread: Lying to get laid, My battle of morals vs success

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    Red face Lying to get laid, My battle of morals vs success

    Im so close to closing guys, I have 5 girls im seeing in my rotation and kiss closing is not even an issue. Closing is however as I think Im just making it too big of a deal when its right there in front of me. Thats just a little hurdle though Ill get past.

    The real issue is with this girl (from my hookah post) that basically she asked about my other girls and I was honest completely. I told her Im seeing other girls. I know I fell into the logical argument frame of hers from the get go. But basically she laid it out too. Being exclusive with her would mean great sex. But aspiring for success with many women I know thats not an option. My other option would be to LIE and go for it as many players do. Eject after sex and continue life. But I Just couldn't do it. I told her that I liked her and because of that my morals wouldn't let me lie to her. She still wants to date but I dont want to waste my time. I dont have oneitis but im struggling on the decision for my style as to if I should lie to get sex or be completely honest like I was and accept that some girls just wont be okay with that. Thoughts and opinions appreciated, life experiences even more. Thanks for reading.

    TL;DR: Lie to get sex, get everything you can? Or be honest that you can always have other options cut your losses?

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    Default Re: Lying to get laid, My battle of morals vs success

    You already know lieing is off the table. So we'll get on with HOW you should be honest.

    First off, don't apologize for your views. I get the feeling you have not done this so let's move on.

    You have to frame it that you ARE looking for that one person, but are picky. OR frame it that you owe it to yourself to explore and gain more experience.

    Now, as for a relationship. Why not? If it gets to the point where she walks out then you may wonder how it could've gone. I say give it a shot. Worst thing is that you break up and just get back into the game. And trust me the game doesn't end in the dating scene. Relationships require even more deep level skills that pickup just does not cover.

    It's called life and it's about gaining as much experience as you can. So just fuck it and go for it. My motto is to NEVER let a good woman pass me by. No matter what stage of my life I'm in. You just never know.

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    Default Re: Lying to get laid, My battle of morals vs success

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    You already know lieing is off the table. So we'll get on with HOW you should be honest.

    First off, don't apologize for your views. I get the feeling you have not done this so let's move on.

    You have to frame it that you ARE looking for that one person, but are picky. OR frame it that you owe it to yourself to explore and gain more experience.

    Now, as for a relationship. Why not? If it gets to the point where she walks out then you may wonder how it could've gone. I say give it a shot. Worst thing is that you break up and just get back into the game. And trust me the game doesn't end in the dating scene. Relationships require even more deep level skills that pickup just does not cover.

    It's called life and it's about gaining as much experience as you can. So just fark it and go for it. My motto is to NEVER let a good woman pass me by. No matter what stage of my life I'm in. You just never know.
    I feel the relationship is already flawed because I want her for sexual experience. Shes fun but Idk yeah I just want to get it in.

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    Default Re: Lying to get laid, My battle of morals vs success

    Well in that case all you need is to reassure her. Have you looked at my post on qualification? You're suppose to make her feel unique and special in YOUR eyes. So she doesn't feel like just another notch in your belt. If that isn't enough (most of the time it is enough) then you'll just have to walk away.
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    Default Re: Lying to get laid, My battle of morals vs success

    I would also like to add...

    Let her know that you need 6 months of dating before you make such a decision. (most of them don't last this long. At least for me.)
    Also let her know that you think sex is a terrible prerequisite for a relationship. You require more than just sex to get into a relationship with a woman.

    This is suppose to take it off the pedestal and focus more on the connection.
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