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Thread: Trying to close with a devout Christian girl and I need strategies

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    Default Trying to close with a devout Christian girl and I need strategies

    This girl and have known each other for a few years and met at church but when i mived away we fell out of touch. I decided to message her on Facebook and things went well and now we've been texting for the past 2 weeks. We haven't been on a date yet because she goes to a college that's an hour and a hale away and I'm still in highschool. I want to do the normal stuff to build sexual tension but she wants to take things slow and nothing I say can be overtly sexual cause she might see me as a perv. I'm still building her comfort level as I called her 'sweety' once before and he said that I needed to slow it down and I played it off that I was seeing how she felt about it. I really need some advice here.

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    Default Re: Trying to close with a devout Christian girl and I need strategies

    Btw I'm not just in this for sex I really like her and would like to be on a relationship with her.

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    Default Re: Trying to close with a devout Christian girl and I need strategies

    Yeah, the sweetie line not good until you get your rapport up,otherwise, it comes off as AFC because you are submitting to her. It is sounding like you may have been LJBF but she would rather not say.

    Additionally, even though she is religious, they like to play with fire too. Play too soft and it is just as bad if not worse than being a perv.

    First slow your roll, and recalibrate, the results you have now not good. Move on to the next approach take small steps until you get. The results you want, you cannot argue with results
    Last edited by hometownextra; 04-21-2013 at 09:53 AM. Reason: Missed point

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    Default Re: Trying to close with a devout Christian girl and I need strategies

    Religious or not you need to flirt and escalate a bit or you will be stuck in the friendzone.

    The conservative girls are the hardest because they always seem to have a problem admitting that flirting and sex are fun!

    1) don't get so attached, you've not even met this girl at this point.

    2) don't go overtly sexual use innuendo and if she calls you on it just tell her it's her dirty mind

    e.g. I was inviting a girl to a bbq and said "you'll have to bring your own baps" small stuff like that to start. It shouldn't get you into trouble

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    Default Re: Trying to close with a devout Christian girl and I need strategies

    Yeah I'm pretty nooby as far as talking to girls I like. When I don't want to date a girl i have no problem being witty and charismatic like I normally am but if I want to date them then I'm as awkward as a priest in a strip club! Thanks for the help, I now see some of the missed opportunities to escalate the convos and gonna try not to miss anymore.

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    Default Re: Trying to close with a devout Christian girl and I need strategies

    Well sometimes I feel likea two year old in a titty bar so it's all good

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    Default Re: Trying to close with a devout Christian girl and I need strategies

    I used to have those moments in the early stages of pick-up too. It would seem like I can flirt with nobody, but when it was somebody, it all of a sudden became harder. The whole problem with it is that you put something on the line. It creates a sort of "If you don't do this right, you will lose her" mentality, which can be very detrimental to your game. After some time, and the right thinking, you learn to overcome this, and all of a sudden you will see that hitting on the girls that you want becomes a hell of a lot easier.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X


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