Continuation from my last thread. This girl has been playing mind games with me, I froze her out for 8 days this week. On the fourth day she finally initiated a text for the first time since we first met.
Her: “Hey how’s your week going?”
Her: “Hey are you ok?”
The next day she called me but didn’t leave message. I did not respond to her messages.
Last night I was at the bar with friends and I received 5 missed phones calls and a text at 2am to which I finally responded. It sounded like she was drunk and she basically wanted me to pick her up and back to my place.
Her: Where you at?
Her: Come by
Me: I’m out for the night.
Her: I’m falling asleep.
Her: I’m giving you 15min
Me: I`ll be home in 30, if you want to come by I`ll be home.
As per my previous thread, this scenario has happened twice before to which I responded and I picked her up only to get back to my place and left high and dry, constant mind games the entire night.
Basically my thought process on how I handled last night is, if she wants it, she can find her way to my place, I`m not jumping through hoops for this girl, and if she plays these games I`d send her packing the same night.
At this point I just want to sleep with her, and I feel that by freezing her out and not jumping at the snap of a finger, it may eventually happen. I feel that the tables have finally turned in my favor because she never initiates until recent.
I have frozen her out for 8 days, with little contact until last night. Tomorrow is her birthday, do I send her a msg `Happy Birthday` or if anyone can suggest a great 're-engaging text` or do I continue to freeze her out for awhile?
I don’t want to overdo it with the freeze-out as I don’t want to come across like a dick or bitter. I think she`s quite annoyed that I`m not chasing her anymore.
Any help would be greatly appreciated.