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    Default Got a date this weekend with a HOT girl, some last minute advice??

    Gentlemen, I met a very hot chick last week (at some social thing, friend of a friend of a friend of a friend), had a nice conversation, exchanged emails, sent a few messages back and forth and now we're having a date this Saturday.

    My goal: preferably bring her home and fark her brains out, or (if she's strictly not into sex at first date) at least trigger the attraction switch and set things up for this to happen next time.

    I sortof got most of my act together: I typically don't run out of things to talk about (without acting like her entertainment monkey for the night), I intend to keep the interaction smooth and interesting for both of us.

    Now, I feel like I know the theory: apply Kino, leave no doubt about my desires without coming accross as needy or clingy or putting her on a pedestal, don't brag but drop some subtle DHV spikes, go for a kiss whenever I feel it's appropriate (rather get rejected for trying and staying cool with it, than not trying at all).

    BUT... I really don't wanna f*ck this up, and I would really appreciate any last minute advice from you guys. What should I do, or not do, for things to work out in my favor? (well actually it's in her favor as well )

    For example, about the Kino: obviously I won't go intimate or start 'groping', just touching her gently / playfully at first. What if she gives no response whatsoever, or even pulls back. Just stay cool and keep trying? Or should I address it at some point, e.g. ask if she feels comfortable?

    I strongly believe in authenticity. Giving a compliment (as long as it's coming from a self condifent, powerful position) is more my thing than 'negging' her. Is it good at some point to mention that I'm attracted to her, like give her a sincere compliment that she looks hot, etc? Or will that just ruin my game?

    Thanks a lot in advance, I'm kinda worked about it (did I already mention she's REALLY hot?) and I really wanna go in well prepared

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    Default Re: Got a date this weekend with a HOT girl, some last minute advice??

    Stop focusing on how hot she is. If you're sold that easy it's already over. She's a person just like you, find out if she's the kind of person worth your time. Have some fun with it dont get so caught up on the outcome. Whatever happens you'll make it out alive I promise =]

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    Default Re: Got a date this weekend with a HOT girl, some last minute advice??

    Just be your best self and see where it takes you focusing on the end game will just eff it up. Remember to control the frame and don't forget to mind your body language it will speak what you feel if you don't keep it in check, but if you are relaxed and confident, focusing on the right things it will not be fighting you as much.

    Actions speak louder than words and are harder to deceive others with.

    Aside from all that happy hunting.

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    Default Re: Got a date this weekend with a HOT girl, some last minute advice??

    She's a person just like you, find out if she's the kind of person worth your time. Have some fun with it dont get so caught up on the outcome.
    Ehhh... but did I already mention how HOT she is??

    Haha no j/k. I get your point, thanks, much appreciated!

    Remember to control the frame and don't forget to mind your body language it will speak what you feel if you don't keep it in check, but if you are relaxed and confident, focusing on the right things it will not be fighting you as much.
    OK, I am a bit confused about the body language issue. I understand relaxed and confident. But then again, I also want to be clear about my intentions, and let her know how I feel. Not from a weak / needy / desperately-chasing-her / hope-to-be-validated perspective, but just taking initiative and not hiding my desires. I think it's better to take a risk and reveal that I find her attractive (including the body language that comes with it), rather than remaining 'cool' all the time and passively waiting until she makes the first move?

    Can you explain what you think would be best here?

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    Default Re: Got a date this weekend with a HOT girl, some last minute advice??

    hmm last weekend I went for a date with a girl I was talking to on pof. Bear in mind apart from joking around I haven't actually told her that I was into her at all, just a normal fun conversation with few negs. So I picked her up, on the way to the restaurant had a nice conversation, thrown a few jokes at her she was constantly laughing. then got out the car, she wasn't sure what she wanted as there was quite a few different restaurants there so I kinda grabbed her from behind(hugging or cuddling whatever to call it) and started pointing at places and asking about what food she likes etc and got to the point where we kissed her as she turned her head. in the end I said we're gonna have an italian then had the meal so kept the funny atmosphere going and did look into her eyes quite a lot for a few seconds then looked at something else(food, people around etc). the initial plan was to go cinema after but hence there was nothing on i've asked if we should go back mine instead and watch a dvd ^^ and she agreed pretty much half way through the meal. then on the way to the car was a bit windy so put my hand around her to keep her a bit warmer. In the car gave her a hug to warm her up more and started kissing. drove back to mine, put the film on and you can guess the rest.


    she probably wasnt as nice as your girl, mine was hb6 max though she was fun to talk to on pof so went for it, so it could be a bit different for a better looking girl. BUT here's what I did:

    do tell her a compliment when you first see her, although dont say something usual like you're beautiful. say she looks outstanding/fabulous/gorgeous etc just make it unique but dont go crazy on it lol.

    keep everything you do natural, be yourself as you would behave with mates but also keep the gentleman/respectful attitude on as you would be around e.g. mates mum. so open the door for her etc. little details do matter.

    be funny, confident but not too cocky. We were talking about all the basics at the beginning really, so our jobs, hobbies etc etc good way to keep her involed is to say your opinion about what she just said and ask her a question about it so she can continue, yet you dont want to interupt her.

    do keep the eye contact with her for a few seconds and make sure you have a slight smile on.(Not too big though else she will think you're laughing at her) Being happy is important because it will give her a visual clue that you're having a good time with her so if you haven't messed up anything to this point she will also be happy and that's a pretty much success.

    Not sure where's your date but if it was a restaurant then do not be scared of silence, in the end when you eat you shouldn't be talking to much.

    This worked for an English HB6, though I am quite confident it would work with most girls especially if you're already talked to her before.

    I'm sure you would be fine


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