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    Kraigory is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Sorely Needed Date and Attraction Advice

    Hello all.

    I need a little bit of guidance from people much more experienced than myself. So I dated a girl about 8 or 9 months ago. It just kind of ran its course and we ended it. Not really any contact since then. All of the sudden she has been showing a little interest, just a few texts here and there, stuff like that, but still not much contact. We've just been doing our own thing so I haven't put too much thought into it. A couple of days ago she started texting me pretty late from a bar with her friends. She wanted to meet up, and it's pretty obvious why.

    So, I was kind of thinking I would like to hang out with this girl a little bit and see what happens. I'm not bad with women, but definitely not incredible. Probably just a little bit above AFC but I do okay. Basically I wanted to know what the best way to go about this would be, lunch date? Hang out session?

    Also, she is obviously a little interested, but I do think she is kind of seeing someone else, but just doesn't really like him that much. They're not official or anything. Basically, I'm not looking for a relationship, just kind of wanting to enjoy things and see what happens. I don't want to play games or anything, but I'm looking to come out of this with her definitely feeling attracted and wanting to hang out more often. Also, I'm 24 and she's 21 if that matters.

    I'm decent with girls I'm meeting and have been hanging out with and stuff but this is just kind of a different situation so I need some guidance. Anyone have any good tips?

    Many thanks amigos.

    Kraig

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    Default Re: Sorely Needed Date and Attraction Advice

    Here you go: Show just as much or less interest. Heres your frame: Look, Ive been dating other girls, I have more to offer with my new confidence, Ill give you a chance and lets see how you've changed. Make her chase you and hold that frame. She is going to have to do some work to get you back. Keep that in the back of your mind man. Make her qualify and win your interest. Then "Reward" her for it.

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    Default Re: Sorely Needed Date and Attraction Advice

    Agree with Devil, you need to make her think that is she isnt chasing after you/craving you then she is doing something wrong. Make yourself seem like a better alternative to this guy she is 'seeing' by using DHV. Ring her to arrange a date, dont ask her though, tell her.. Tell her that you both are going to the cafe/bar or whatever and tell her what time, that you've got time off your schedule for it and if she passes it up then punish her, be blunt and cut the convo short or something.
    For an example, a girl i was working on recently- i rang her up after number closing the day before, told her that im taking a few hours off revision for tonight only, and that its for her to come over and watch a film, at 7:00pm. She said she had plans already, so i told her i was a better offer than whatever plans she could have, but fine i could quite easily fill that time with alternatives then said bye. She rang back half an hour later saying she was coming. end of.

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    Default Re: Sorely Needed Date and Attraction Advice

    Hello Kraig

    I had similar situation with a girl I've dated for

    couple of months and I wanted to get back with her, but she ignored me. Then I

    realized I had to do something, cause I couldn't use DHV and Story telling, because

    we lived in the same town, so what I did was that I went to another city and there I

    went out with my brother, we hooked up with some chicks, but that was it. I stayed

    10 days. There I did a lip piercing , and I got a haircut. Then I went back to my

    town, and I learned all these DHV stories that I was about to tell her(PS none of

    those stories happen to me, but I made them look like it did). So I went out with my

    brother to the club. And I saw her, and I started walking in her direction, but i

    made it look like i didn't saw her at all, all of a sudden she saw me and was surprised

    by my new looks, and I acted full of energy, confidence, enthusiastic, and i was like,

    hey whats up? she was like: hey look at you, where you been, I haven't saw you in

    some time ? you changed ? you look different? And I was like, : yeah, well , I've been

    living a life lately, and some amazing things happen to me. She was like: what???

    tell me ?? Then we moved to another place where we set down, and i told her some

    dhv stories i found on seductionbase, and I added flying dildo one on the end,( of course i edited it), we

    were laughing and doing kino, and then i used mystery's "spell of attraction"

    gambit and we kissed and game over

    So thats my story

    I really hope I've helped

    Best regards

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    Default Re: Sorely Needed Date and Attraction Advice

    As the other guys have said , make her chase you. Don't get fixated on any one girl.


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