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Thread: Talked to girl on phone, didn't reply text. what now?

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    Default Talked to girl on phone, didn't reply text. what now?

    Hey guys. I'm wondering where I can go on from this or just to move on.

    Met a girl through online dating site POF and have been using this for a while. Went pretty smooth and she was very interested, we exchanged texts and that same day she wanted me to come ride the train home with her after she was done hanging out/drinking with her friends. I declined and rainchecked because it was all of a sudden and I was busy, might have actually gone.

    Fast foreward few days we shoot texts back and forth but nothing happens, one night she opens up more through text and we proceed to talk on the phone for 1hrish or so. I usually keep this short and just try to set up a meet but the convo just flew and she kept talking so the time flew by. She's been on the site for a while and has met plenty of men but nothing has happened, she's a pretty chill cool down to earth girl and def not a princess by any means (she got angry when I called her that haha). Seems like a party-er type of girl anyways.

    I shoot her a text the day after around 6-7ish and my plan on 2nd text is just to tell her come meet me at xx at this time for drinks. Didn't get that far because I didn't get a response. What now? How long do we usually wait for her to text back ( if she does)? Do we ever text again, if so in how long? Or just move on from this.

    It's been tough to set up meets with some of these girls so I really try to get the number same day and set up the meet within ~1-2 days or It just doesn't happen, attraction seems to fade fast.

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    Default Re: Talked to girl on phone, didn't reply text. what now?

    1 set something up quickly on first contact

    2 phrase it as going somewhere at this time meet me there it will be fun ( don't ask if she is free) if yes she will agree, if no she will decline or not respond, if she is busy but wants to she will try to qualifying different time or if she doesn't like the place she will try to change the venue. If she try's to change the time don't ill use to being free illude to the fact you can make it work if you switch your schedule around a little.never explicitly say you are not do ing anything, likewise do not say that you cannot make it work unless you truly have something better to do or a real obligation. But by mentioning you can change your schedule it is social proof you have a life and by being able to switch your schedule you are in control of it to do what you wish.

    3 try one last good shot but if it not move on and remember to the suggestions above to help give you a more decisive frame, girls are typically indecisive, but the alpha is decisive. Words that will kill you, I am not doing anything, I don't know what to do, I don't know where to go. Basically anything that stars with I don't is bad.

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    Default Re: Talked to girl on phone, didn't reply text. what now?

    Ok what did you text her, if it was boring "how was your day?" that's why she hasn't replied.

    Generally, wait at least 2 days before sending another text, spamming her phone will annoy her and make you look bad.

    with POF you need to move fairly quick, or things fizzle out because it's harder to build attraction over text than in person. Get the phone number pretty quick, you can normally manage it within 10 messages, then text her a little back and forth to build up the flirting again then arrange a date whilst you're on a high.

    What you should have done was a) just gone and met her on the train or b) arranged a date when you were on the phone.

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    Default Re: Talked to girl on phone, didn't reply text. what now?

    Sidewinder you sum it up well. That is my point short and simple without the long explanation above kudos

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    Default Re: Talked to girl on phone, didn't reply text. what now?

    I texted her "How was your day"- a text you'll never receive me from haha. What's going on goofball" ( she had texted me this (how was your day) previously on the phone call day and I responded telling her I thought we weren't going to exchange boring texts. She complained that guys in POF were sometimes exchanging boring texts back and forth, so i thought this was fine overall.

    Agreed with what you both said. I should have gone to the train to meet her or set something up on phone, did neither and but texted day after. Should I still give it one last good shot? Any suggestions how I even open? I'm thinking of just telling her on fri or sat to come meet me at this place and at this time being foreward and direct about it.

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    Default Re: Talked to girl on phone, didn't reply text. what now?

    Set place and time don't ask, when she is free.although somewhere fun and o neutral ground may work better to your advantage use the date set up as the opener

    Whatever time at whatever place meet me there it will be fun.

    Don't get too crazy on banter leave that for the face to face time.

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    Default Re: Talked to girl on phone, didn't reply text. what now?

    If a girl doesn't respond to your text, don't text her for the rest of the day and try again tomorrow. That's the rule of thumb
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