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Thread: need help keeping my game going after open!

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    Default need help keeping my game going after open!

    im a great opener, but sometimes after a great opener i cant seem to find what to say after. this isnt AA or nervousness its just this wierd mental block that i cant beat. yesterday i was at work and approached a BL8 who was buying an absurd amount of flowers and i asked her if they were me. she laughed so i knew i had my foot in the door. but after some flirty small talk i suddently went blank! it was not only awkward but really ruined any come back with her... any help on this would be great. this isnt the only time this has happened. thnks

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    Default Re: need help keeping my game going after open!

    Maybe you should try (before open the girl) to have 3 questions ready, so it is more easy not to freeze!

    Best Regards,

    Newbie

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    Default Re: need help keeping my game going after open!

    You get the open, so you have the attract. The next thing you need to do is demonstrate value. You got her attention now you better prove that you are different. By doing so it has to be in a manor that builds rapport as well. The best way to go about it is to find something that applies to her and use it to your advantage. Everyone's favorite subject to talk about is themselves. Just find a way to recognize the truisms about that person and bring them up as you notice that she is a whatever flattering characteristic in her personality (don't use things that you can see) add a little push pull so you aren't just sweet talking and you got that rapport and you demonstrate higher value.

    It will take some getting used to search cold reading, the cube, and other rapport building strategies.

    Physical observations are usually not for building rapport because if you notice it likewise everyone else has already mentioned it or tried to flirt based off of a physical observation. Remember you are trying to demonstrate higher value, you need to be the exception. Using a physical observation runs risk of being like everyone else and becomes a DLV on your part.
    Last edited by hometownextra; 04-25-2013 at 09:34 AM. Reason: Missed point

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    Default Re: need help keeping my game going after open!

    Conversation should just flow. Don't jar it with planned topics, just switch to things naturally and get out of your own head.

    It's ok to ask the small talk questions "films, family" etc etc so you can find hooks. What you want to do is find something you both like then launch the conversation in that way.

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    Default Re: need help keeping my game going after open!

    hunter you're gay. stop being a pussy Love your bestfriend

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    Default Re: need help keeping my game going after open!

    Sidewinder makes valid point if the staged conversations are tripping you up go in natural and find flow


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