first post (long read )
ive been talking to this girl for a while now and at first she was interested but as time would have it she stopped being interested just as i was starting to get interested... we've been talking for a while now and for about the past month things have been getting good.
She recently invited me to a party she was going to and we went and had a great time. the party was out of town about 30 minutes so i had to drive her out their and to her house where we chilled for a while and i ended up meeting like half of her family which was actually pretty cool, as soon as we pulled up to her driveway everyone that was their was like "ohh she's here with her boyfriend" (she never denied that i was her boyfriend) (people at the party asked her if we were dating and she never said no but also never said yes, she just said "i dont know")
we went to the party and ended up hanging out for most of it ( she followed me everywhere i went,even out in the pouring rain to my car to get something.) we slept the night on a couch together (nothing happened) and i had to drive her home in the morning which she then said i could meet her mom now and that i should come in to meet her, i politely declined as i looked like crap and it was 8:00 am. during the party and way before she was giving IOI's and even being physical with her ioi's. now after the party she's been ignoring my texts (except the day after the party) we have a class together and she would normally start conversations with me no matter what and vice-versa.
now she hardly talks to me but talks to everyone around me and i catch her looking at me as she's talking to them, she'll talk to me when i start the conversation but she doesnt start anything anymore.
shes like my 10/10 girl and im not really sure where to go from here, should i just alpha up and go for it? or should i just move onto the next?