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Thread: Need advice ASAP - How to escalate for sister's best friend?

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    Default Re: Need advice ASAP - How to escalate for sister's best friend?

    You don't have a boyfriend? Is pretty beta. I prefer are you single?

    Also its too early to say she is fine for u. She basically put out her bad quality and u said its ok. Now she thinks u share the bad quality or that u accept it.She needs u to be the cool person. You are not a loser.

    Better would be "yeah your kinda a dork lol. But I think you have a great mind. You know, when you let people see the real you." Never compliment directly or about something she mentions to devalue herself.
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    Default Re: Need advice ASAP - How to escalate for sister's best friend?

    Damn. Should've posted here before texting an answer.
    So from what I'm getting here, you should jokingly make fun of the bad quality but compliment her on something else and try to get her to open up a bit.

    Guess I have a lot of work to do to change my mindset.

    P.S. Was the last line acceptable?

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    Default Re: Need advice ASAP - How to escalate for sister's best friend?

    You don't have to compliment. I just feel for people who are socially awkward (if its true. Most people say it but are not).

    The last line was bad simply because you said you were like her and that she needed a BF. You connected those two things in her mind. Now she is framing it as if you want her. Usually, the BF line is OK... not great. But after a compliment, you are treading dangerous waters. Unless you have great Inner Game and want to go direct.
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    Default Re: Need advice ASAP - How to escalate for sister's best friend?

    Well I received a reply and she took it at face value.

    Her: haha people have tried that. ___(my sister) has tried haha granted not very hard.

    Not sure how to react

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    Default Re: Need advice ASAP - How to escalate for sister's best friend?

    Don't Text her until late today.

    Ask her what are her qualities that would appeal to men. Judge them or be skeptical about them. Then tell her one or two are interesting. Tell her you value that quality but are skeptical she has it.

    Then if you feel bold, ask her if she is good in bed. Tell her you need to know if you are going to find her a man. If she says she is great say the only guy u know who is great is yourself. If she says not great, tell her you can teach her a few innocent things... such as massaging. Keep her guessing as to your level of interest. Ask for a date and kino from there.
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