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    zacst133 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Paying at the first meetup

    I'm curious about thoughts on paying at the first meet up. Generally, I am pretty old fashioned when it comes to the man paying and opening doors and all that. I'm curious if on a first date/meetup if she has earned you paying for it. Normally I would pick something cheaper the first time like ice cream or coffee then try to get her to go back to my place but is it smart to pay for her ice cream or coffee? When do you start paying? Not that I can't afford it but don't want to come off as need or lose my alpha maleness haha

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    Default Re: Paying at the first meetup

    Go Dutch date if she wants you to pay, just reply ok but you get next round, they are used to guys buying so you are demonstrating that you are different and you respect yourself and her enough to give her he option to do things for herself. If she calls you out on it you can explain that it is just respecting her ability to provide for herself, use something cocky funny like oh my lil sis likes it when I buy stuff for her too or just say it was a test to see how she reacted, obviously by calling you out it is likely at that point a fail do you really want someone that only wants what is in your wallet?

    That's at least my two cents


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