Hey guys Im new here looking for some help.
Basically my problem is that I have put p*ssy on a pedestal. (40 year old virgin term)
So I see an attractive woman walking down the street in my direction, and I'm afraid too even look and make eye contact with her. Usually when i get about 10-15 feet away from here I pull out my cell and pretend to text. Then when i get five feet away I look at her quick to see if shes looking at me.... and if she is I quickly look away.
I feel like woman are a target for most men. They are sick of guys looking at them and trying to pick them up.. So I respect them as much as possible, by not even talking or looking at them for fear of offending them.
I think a big part of it is my fear of rejection. I also lack confidence in day to day life situations.
Can i please get some tips and advice on how to build more confidence with woman, and even in general life. Some step by step stuff that I can progress through or just anything that will help.
-Someone once told me to imagine that she is twice as nervous as I am.
stuff like this