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    Default Double Identity Crisis

    Alright guys, this is about my inner self and it's already complicated for me to understand so I'll try to simplify for you much as I can. And I'll be needing your help in the process. (I must add, I already feel better just because I identified this issue.)

    First of all, English is not my native language and I don't live where people use English in public places. So obviously, I can't use English in my game while communicating.

    However, I spent a lot of time using English. I took 12 consecutive years of English classes, I have many online friends with whom we speak English with each other, I prefer listening songs in English, watching movies/TV shows in English. So basically I can say that I spend the 75% of my day in English.

    Here's where it becomes messy for me. This 75% of my day in English eventually made my inner voice become speaking in English. And this creates a second identity of myself. The English identity is a cool and alpha guy because he thinks before he acts and he knows what to say, how to act, because he conquered the inner-self. That is exactly why I make more friends when I go abroad, have more fun while talking to my foreign friends, etc. Although, my Native identity is a total AFC. He has to translate and copy the English identity's words and behavior because he doesn't have a inner voice to back him up. And that is why, I almost always run out of things to say while talking to my native friends, be usually silent and shy, etc.

    I am urgently in need of help to get over this issue. I want to transfer my English identity to the Native one or somehow merge each other, or whatever helps.

    All comments & suggestions are appreciated.
    Thank you in advance,
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    It's about who I am. Do it right here, right now.

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    Default Re: Double Identity Crisis

    i would sugest taking a language class for your native language (or getting "rosetta stone" language learning software for learning your native language)
    essentialy you most likely need to "re-learn" your native language so that you can think and speak fluently in the language of your country.
    otherwise just game girls who speak english, or game girls when you travel or even move to a country that speaks english.
    you have alot of options, but it would be really cool if you could speak both languages fluently and game in both languages, then you could even teach your girlfriends how to speak some english (a major dhv)

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