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Thread: Girl is trying to keep me "hooked", how to proceed

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    Post Girl is trying to keep me "hooked", how to proceed

    I've been FB chatting with this random girl for the past two days. She literally told me she likes to keep me waiting for her, so I try not to be needy and tell her my patience is running low.

    It's me who always initiates the conversation, but I'm planning to stop and see if she will write me first. What would be a good thing to do in this situation in order to keep her interest?

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    Default Re: Girl is trying to keep me "hooked", how to proceed

    Quote Originally Posted by starburst View Post
    I've been FB chatting with this random girl for the past two days. She literally told me she likes to keep me waiting for her, so I try not to be needy and tell her my patience is running low.

    It's me who always initiates the conversation, but I'm planning to stop and see if she will write me first. What would be a good thing to do in this situation in order to keep her interest?
    Novice evaluation:
    Her telling you she likes to keep you waiting for her is her assuming the dominant role in the interaction; and not only that, but moderately belittling you.
    You telling her your patience is running low is you being needy. (I'm getting anxious and want your attention, give it to me). The objective should not be for you to request her attention, but to game her into smothering you with it.

    Stop initiating the conversation. Raise your value. Tell her you have to get away from Facebook because (help here) your ex is stalking you via Facebook. Send her one last message along these lines:
    "I have to take a break from Fb (help here) cause I have a ton of homework to catch up on for the end of the semester and I keep getting distracted. Here's my number: 804.123.4567 Hit me up. Or don't...

    This definitely needs some revisions as I'm a bit out of my game, so please, experts, join in.

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    Default Re: Girl is trying to keep me "hooked", how to proceed

    the above post:

    In my experience...telling a girl to hit you up or don't is incredibly DHV. You are assuming any possibility other than she will hit you up because she wants to.

    TELLING A GIRL TO HIT YOU UP...OR DON'T has NEVER worked for me.
    KISS - Keep it Stupid Simple

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    Default Re: Girl is trying to keep me "hooked", how to proceed

    Quote Originally Posted by Blistex View Post
    the above post:

    In my experience...telling a girl to hit you up or don't is incredibly DHV. You are assuming any possibility other than she will hit you up because she wants to.

    TELLING A GIRL TO HIT YOU UP...OR DON'T has NEVER worked for me.
    I hesitated on that last part as I was unsure how to close the message.
    Hit me up or don't should be replaced with something more smooth.
    I'm confused though.
    Hit me up or don't IS DHV??
    Why does hit me up or don't not include "she will hit you up because she wants to"
    Ah, because if she wanted to, she wouldn't need you to tell her to.
    So what you're saying is leave it as "here's my #"

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    Default Re: Girl is trying to keep me "hooked", how to proceed

    Drop this girl completely. Ignore her, find a new girl immediately. Even if you don't, pretend you do. This girl has you in the palm of her hands, you are her plaything (not in a good way) So! Find a new squeeze or make it seem like you have one. I would drop this girl completely and forget about her if it was me. Now that is the key, you MUST FORGET HER! You cant do any of the following with the hope of her coming back. Now...with her forgotten and you don't care if she ever comes back. Ignore her and talk up other girls, meet other girls, post fb pics of you with other girls. (preferable hot ones but not necessary) You don't even have to know them. Go out, pretend you are on a scavenger hunt and tell groups of girls you need a picture with them cause they are wearing X, and you are doing a scavenger hunt. Get the pics and post them.

    Now this girl that likes to toy with you will realize she is losing you. She made the mistake of telling you exactly what she wants. When she doesn't get it she will first get mad and prolly ignore you, or it may work quickly and shell hit you up. IGNORE HER!!!! Don't answer right away or on the first attempt. Ignore her, don't even read her message at all!!!!

    Now within a week I would guess she will hit you up again, answer non needily and set something up. If she says something about you waiting on her and crap, just a simple..."sorry I don't wait" or what not will work. Dont be a jerk...or hell do be a jerk it doesn't matter. But let it be known you aren't waiting for anyone and wont be treated like that. Now arrange a meet, not a date, don't put her on that pedestal. Don't pay for her meals, or anything like that. You can be a gentleman and polite, but be that way towards everyone not just her. She has to earn you back, if you cave to early and pay for her stuff etc shell have you.

    Hope this helps, never let the girl boss you around like that or make you wait. She makes you wait, you leave. It is her privileged to be with you, not the other way around. Game hard, game always!!! Good luck!

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    Default Re: Girl is trying to keep me "hooked", how to proceed

    Quote Originally Posted by Flyboy86 View Post
    Drop this girl completely. Ignore her, find a new girl immediately. Even if you don't, pretend you do. This girl has you in the palm of her hands, you are her plaything (not in a good way) So! Find a new squeeze or make it seem like you have one. I would drop this girl completely and forget about her if it was me. Now that is the key, you MUST FORGET HER! You cant do any of the following with the hope of her coming back. Now...with her forgotten and you don't care if she ever comes back. Ignore her and talk up other girls, meet other girls, post fb pics of you with other girls. (preferable hot ones but not necessary) You don't even have to know them. Go out, pretend you are on a scavenger hunt and tell groups of girls you need a picture with them cause they are wearing X, and you are doing a scavenger hunt. Get the pics and post them.

    Now this girl that likes to toy with you will realize she is losing you. She made the mistake of telling you exactly what she wants. When she doesn't get it she will first get mad and prolly ignore you, or it may work quickly and shell hit you up. IGNORE HER!!!! Don't answer right away or on the first attempt. Ignore her, don't even read her message at all!!!!

    Now within a week I would guess she will hit you up again, answer non needily and set something up. If she says something about you waiting on her and crap, just a simple..."sorry I don't wait" or what not will work. Dont be a jerk...or hell do be a jerk it doesn't matter. But let it be known you aren't waiting for anyone and wont be treated like that. Now arrange a meet, not a date, don't put her on that pedestal. Don't pay for her meals, or anything like that. You can be a gentleman and polite, but be that way towards everyone not just her. She has to earn you back, if you cave to early and pay for her stuff etc shell have you.

    Hope this helps, never let the girl boss you around like that or make you wait. She makes you wait, you leave. It is her privileged to be with you, not the other way around. Game hard, game always!!! Good luck!
    +1
    Couldn't have said it better myself (clearly).

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    Default Re: Girl is trying to keep me "hooked", how to proceed

    You/re so right!! The crazy thing is I knew this and still did the opposite and was burned, I played right into her hands, never again, never put her on the pedestal.

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    Default Re: Girl is trying to keep me "hooked", how to proceed

    sorry about that, I was about to leave. I meant it to be DLV. Its really DLV.
    KISS - Keep it Stupid Simple

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    Default Re: Girl is trying to keep me "hooked", how to proceed

    Thanks for the advice everyone. I'm new at this, but I'm gaming two other girls right now, they are uploading pics of me with them so she'll see.
    Plus it was she who found me on FB, I didn't even know who she was. We met through a mutual friend and I barely even spoke to her.


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