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Thread: first date done now what ?

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    Default first date done now what ?

    i met this girl online exchanged few pics and txt messages , i set up a date on Monday , she tried to get to come over and "cuddle" Sunday , i wasnt able to make it ,got off work late...got her address and picked her up Monday , took to her to a beach park walked around and talk , i mostly did the listening , and have her ask questions , after an hour i ended the date by suggesting it , there was no kino except once she grabbed my upper arm , i drooped her off at her place , no kiss tho , i didnt even try , she said thanks for taking me out and txt me .. i said ill txt you later and bye ...few hours later i txted her and asked if she would like to hang out again she responded with "maybe so " , i said "im going skydiving tomorrow with a friend , but Wednesday we can stop by Flyers and have a drink , or few , if you are available"
    she responded with "we'll see" ...i have not txted her today and not planing to txt her on Wednesday either , wanna wait and see if she does first since its up to her for Wednesday...girl is hot , any thoughts and/or advises would be appreciated

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    Default Re: first date done now what ?

    Text her when your free, she won't text you first. And quit lying about skydiving thats lame. I mean its rediculous but it sounds try hard.

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    Default Re: first date done now what ?

    lol , its not a lie , i went skydiving , is that hard to believe? , try hard ? im not putting pussy on a pedestal ! and come off as needy and desperate ...but since i like this girl enough to ask for a second outing and considering her responses i turned here to see what ya'll "playas" had to say and hear your advises ....anybody else's remark worth considering ?

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    Default Re: first date done now what ?

    I would say that your first date hasn't gone brilliantly... for me I almost always kiss on a first date if I'm interested in it going further.

    If you don't kiss you should at the very least kino a lot and flirt! From the sounds of things she's on the fence at the minute. You are going to have to text her and invite her out.

    However, don't just ping her a text asking her out, flirt with her over text a little first to build the attraction back up.

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    Default Re: first date done now what ?

    i know what you saying , kiss on a first date is always ideal i just didnt feel it would be right to do since i only spend an hour "feeling things out" didnt wanna make it awkward , i was on the "fance" too meeting her for the first time, to see what she what up to , i did invite her out Wednesday, which is today now she was kinda nervous on a first date cause she talked alot about random things lol , i found that cute smiled and listened , i wasnt nervous but kinda reserved , i dint want to go out of my way and try to impress her and qualify myself to her, i invited her out suggestively Wednesday (today now) for a drink so we could relax a bit and break that ice , flirting over txt is ok , but can be misunderstanding when strangers do it , im best at face to face playfull gestures and being charismatic , i invited her out again so i can take it to the next level and intensify it ...my question i guess is should i follow up with a txt or call for this second date since i didnt get clear answer first time or suggestion for different day if she wasnt available,or just wait for her to say anything , ...i appreciate your replies

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    Default Re: first date done now what ?

    I'd text as I tend to find a lot of girls I date hate speaking on the phone (may be a British thing?)

    I'd text a bit first on a non-related topic and build the attraction back up then ask her out, you'll have a better chance of her saying yes. Oh and there are no hard and fast rules about kissing but generally you really should have done it by the end of a second date.

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    Default Re: first date done now what ?

    , if you are available"
    lol who the fqck cares if she's available, it's already implied by the previous, if i say come to mine on wednesday, you have to see whether you are free, it just gives her more of a reason to think of a reason not to come

    anyway as sidewinder said, go for the k-close, stop being a p*ssy, you could've done it in halfa if u wanted to :>

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    Default Re: first date done now what ?

    lol ok ..."if available" i probably shouldnt have said that , but hey none us are founding fathers and "invented" dating , you cant follow general rules in every situation since its all different given the circumstances , all that "could've , should've" is irrelevant now , i appreciate your suggestions , however i dont operate like that, txting and trying hard to somehow generate attraction trough some txted words with no voice and substance . she knows im interested by inviting her out 2nd time , if she is as well she will do something about it , but im just not going to court her ,and try to strike up convo with some cheesee fake ass messages and try to be "funny" and/or "flirty" , ive done that in junior high , i guess i answered my own question , thanks for all your responses tho

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    Default Re: first date done now what ?

    all the could've, should've, would've, is to make you realise for next time, it's nothing personal

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    Default Re: first date done now what ?

    oh i know ...ive been around the block to know advantages of k-close , just like a best scenario is f-close ..aside from the subject of tread posted


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