What's up guys? If you could answer a couple questions for me it would be greatly appreciated! The questions are at the end, in bold font. Thanks in advance for your help.
This girl is basically my ideal girlfriend. She's awesome and this is the first time I have felt a real connection with a girl and an attraction towards a girl that isn't purely physical.
I went to a place called Le Tache (adult toy store - MVC sister company) yesterday, and I met the cutest/coolest girl I have ever met in my life.
We didn't talk much yesterday but I went back today, hoping she would be at work, and luckily she was!!
First off, she is a techy/nerd type girl (which I really like about her) who is actually very attractive and she is young (somewhere between 18-22. She is at least 18 because she works in a sex-toy store).
We went to the "dungeon" (the floor she works on - has male sex toys and BDSM toys/equipment) and she helped me pick out some toys and, after I paid, we talked for 30-45 min about what she likes/recommends, what she and I really want to try (specifically, shock therapy, BDSM stuff like tying someone up/getting tied up and some other random sexual topics) and talked about what she likes and what gets her off/excited/horny. We really got along great and had an amazing conversation that was very sexual (we were in an adult sex toy shop so the atmosphere was sexual even before we began to talk).
Then, when I was about to leave, she asked me to come see her again sometime (she specifically said "come see me again" and, after I asked what days she works, I began walking towards the stairs/exit and she followed me and asked for my name.
I'm pretty sure she is at least interested a little.
I can see her again any time next week (monday through thursday actually) and I was thinking about asking her to go for a walk down to the river if she can take a break (the area her and I work in is a great place for couples/friends/tourists to walk around, talk and see the sights).
Do you guys think it's too early to ask her on a date? I'm pretty sure that I just passed the "comfort building" stage today because she seemed to open up a lot and I think we "clicked" but I'm not sure.. I should have run some compliance tests but it slipped my mind.
I will be going to see her next week - would Monday be the best day to go since it's only 4 days away from when we got to know eachother? Said differently, would it be best to see her again as soon as possible so our last meeting is still "fresh" in her mind??
NOTE: This is the first time I have met a girl that I like this much - so far, she seriously might be my soul-mate.
I'm not worried about "messing up" because I'm sticking to my way of game that I call "Universal Spontaneous Game" - in which I do not use canned lines at all (everything is made up on the spot). My goal isn't to be perfect - I'm just hoping that me being myself and genuinely liking her will be enough. If it isn't then oh well, I'll try again with someone else.