I've got this HB8 I've been back-burner gaming for a long time. We met a few years ago and she's been in and out of my life in phases, which is fine with me- I usually have at least a dozen low-intensity long-term games going on at a time. She just recently moved close to me so we've been texting some and visiting occasionally. At this point I only know her from my social sphere and don't see her out at clubs or events. There's definite interest but I suspect she feels intimidated by me.
Problem A: She always has 1-2 friends (AFCs) with her, and I can't seem to get her over by herself. She's staying with a friend right now so she doesn't have a place by herself. Not sure how to proceed.
Problem B: And the larger problem for me, she's chronically late for everything. Last time I tried inviting her over I waited 11 hours for her to arrive. (Didn't have anything else to do so I put up with it but made sure my displeasure was clear.) Generally speaking there's always a 2-3 hour latency between agreed-upon times and actual arrival.
Problem A I could probably puzzle out myself eventually, but I figured I'd put it out there.
Does anyone have any experience/advice with Problem B?