Re: should I cut my girl loose
By the sounds of it, this relationship is messed up already. She is threatening you with sex in an attempt to change a habit of yours. Where is the level of emotional commitment in this relationship? Is the entire relationship just based off of sex? If the relationship is based off of baseball, then you should definitely get rid of her. If not, then you need to sit down with her and talk out your problems. Just letting the water in the pot boil up more and more is just going to lead to a whole ton of problems. Actually talking about it can help the two of you reach a healthy conclusion that you both can agree on.
And although I don't care about the smoking, I can't say the same for others. Smoking is becoming more and more unpopular from what I am seeing, and eventually you will have to make a choice about whether you want to smoke and enjoy yourself, or quit so the majority of the crowd opens back up to you.
"There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X