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    Default Been gaming this one for a year

    Yeh!

    Long story short - she works at my work, in my eyes HB9 and I'm after her for GF material, that's my end result with this one.

    Gamed her april last year, over the course of three months, won, we had good sex, exchanged numbers etc she fucked off travelling for half a year (knew it was happening) I broke contact, she assumed I was after 1 night thing, she met someone came home, came back to work, I continued to game her (her BF is not my responsibility) she was still very receptive and keen, we ended up sleeping together, she told her then BF, we had numerous talks - wheres this going etc.

    We tried to ignore it- I laid the game off for a while, then reignited it last couple of months, we went out a while back with work and ended up sleeping together, she broke it off with her BF, she wants to be with me but now her head is "a real mess" and she "needs time alone to think"

    She's asked so many IOI questions like
    "would you have me in your life?"
    "i'm worried you'll get bored of me"

    She's such a great great girl.

    Now this time alone thing - how do I play this? at the moment I'm doing it hardball and i've said "i'm going to crack on with my life for a few weeks cause you obviously need time" the other night she asked me to meet her but I said "no, I don't think it's a good idea" and played it that way. We didn't meet.

    What are the next steps? Do I continue the dropped contact? ignore her? Or do I play it alpha and go the other way "this is what we are gonna do etc"

    i'm literally at the edge of winning what I belive to be a girl I'd want to let into my life and spend it with - but I feel if I play it wrongly here it's game over.

    A big issue is her friends filling her head with shit saying she's dropped her really lovely BF for me (whom they don't know) but i'm obviously seen as the bad guy.

    Many many thanks for your help friends.

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    Default Re: Been gaming this one for a year

    This one gets sticky, she obviously has attraction to you, but she did sleep with you when she had a boyfriend. This is not good for the trust aspect what is to say if you land her she won't do the same. However I am not saying don't do it. If you honestly like her go get her but keep your eyes open, but don't be jealous or needy.

    What her friends are doing is just classic being over protective, they don't know you so they assume lower value. You have to eventually demonstrate your high value but that can be done whilst you two are dating exclusively if need be. The only caveat to that is if you cannot land her without her friends' approval, but in this instance I think she does a lot of things without the approval of her friends

    The questions above especially the one of her worried that you will get bored with her is one she should ask herself, obviously she got bored of the last guy. But don't bluntly ask her that a good reply would be I will put in the effort if you are willing to put in the effort to keep it interesting too. Explain that you like to have fun and want to include her in your life so you can have adventures together.

    That is my two cents
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    Default Re: Been gaming this one for a year

    Hello mate, thanks for takign time to reply.
    I hear what you are saying, but she is 'normally' very loyal, and I trust her, I can see it in her, I think our situation was that we both liked each other so much.

    What about the "need time alone" stuff? How should I play that specifically?

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    Default Re: Been gaming this one for a year

    Give space but don't freeze out, normal small talk is ok. So long as you don't over do it and appear needy you are fine.

    Freezing out or being too distant will hurt you here because you need to be the friend above all else. Also if asked on her questions again you need to look at the root concerns not the question itself.
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    Default Re: Been gaming this one for a year

    Woah man you have set a bad precedence for your relationship.it could be definately done you.

    theres no need to freeze out here but just don't cross that needy border line as was said.

    Currently she may be experiencing what most girls have when they have feelings for guys.they may ask questions or do something else to see whether you do.
    On the girl being loyal maybe she was but based on dynamics there is a chance it may happen to you.
    If she is now single and you still want her you may go for it.
    Next time there is a girl you like that likes you and you find out she has a boyfriend make sure she looses him before you sleep with her

    Goodluck whatever you may do


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