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Thread: escalation and possibility of friendzone :S

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    Default escalation and possibility of friendzone :S

    well so i got the number of this girl in class that i wasn't really interested in but and since it was the last week of lessons i thought ah what the heck, give it a shot. we've been out for coffee twice and its working out pretty well, i worked in the whole teasing, nicknames, stupid remarks, dhv etc and they all seem to work (laughs at my jokes, very receptive, starts personal questions, flicking hair the usual ioi's) but how do i start escalating from this point and avoid falling into the friendzone? sometimes she calls me 'dude' so i dunno, i need a creative way to turn that around. i gotta admit i totally forgot the kino and maybe could have flirted a bit more. expert help please!

    oh and also she seems pretty shy and doesnt drink/party did i go overboard with the game?

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    Default Re: escalation and possibility of friendzone :S

    This is a common trap. Even amongst more advanced PUAs. Even myself once in awhile. You have to qualify. That's the best way to transition into something a bit more real between you two. I wrote a post about qualification to help get guys started.
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    Default Re: escalation and possibility of friendzone :S

    thanks that's a really intrinsic article! i'm gonna work some of that in. in response to the whole dude thing, if i tease her about it and she's like 'what should i call u?', would something like 'u seem like a smart girl, surprise me' count as a qualification?

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    Yea. Pretty much anything that sets you up as a challenge and she has to earn you.
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    Default Re: escalation and possibility of friendzone :S

    field report: so i teased her about calling me dude and i went like 'fine, do u want me to demote u from pretty new bff to mean bff?' and no reply (shes usually very receptive). major faux pas or just stunned?

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    newest update: my stupid experiment totally worked now shes even more into the banter thnx batman!


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