This sort of encompasses some texting and LDS stuff too.
So the inspiration for this post is that Iíve been texting a girl for a while, fairly on and off. Conversations are aight, have good ones and have bad ones but she has continued to respond.
Any way when the conversations escalate to more sexual topics she sort of tries to drop hints of me in the friendzone. For instance when the conversation gets kind of or possible sexual she gives me this whole block of text about how she would only do certain things with a boyfriend or potential boyfriend blah blah. (If I am misreading this as being put in the friendzone PLEASE PLEASE let me know).
HOWEVER, this post isnít so much about a potential friedzone trap. (though any suggestions are welcomed)
Here is my thought: If someone is attempting to put me in the friendzone, can I lower the relationship status as a form of disqualification and then build it up?
For instance, if in my case say HB says something about being friends (which I understand is not something to be necessarily ashamed of and completely recoverable from) would I then suggest something that we arenít even friends but rather text buddies? Or acquaintances etc.? (the details of defining each stage are still TBD). Additionally if one were to make this move would it make it easier or more challenging to get past the friend zone level?