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    southern is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default need help with cute girl I have hooked up with in the past but......

    So I recently hooked up with this cute chick I had hooked up with a few weeks prior. The next day she was hitting me up on text and called me wanting to meet up and party. I never heard back from her that evening but did send her one text message asking if she was rolling to the party at our mutuals friends house. No response so I left it as is. The next day I met a another friend for drinks and she was there. We hit it off good again and went to another party. The weird thing was that at the party she acted like she didn't know me. I think this chick is a TESTER, Denier, Realist according to vin dicarlo. Anyway when we were alone outside talking I leaned in and kissed her, she kissed me back. Then we went back in the house and she acted aloof again. We left the party with 2 other of her "guy friends" and went back to her house to smoke and chill out. We fell asleep watching a movie on separate couches. After the 2 guys were asleep we were kinda talking and she seemed annoyed that I was talking to her(she might had been tired, i dunno) I ended up leaving shortly there after and headed back to my place. Decided not to text or call her until I run into her later (she's good friends with one of my good buddies so I know I will see her around.

    Question is: do you think I was being to aggressive with this chick ( I personally think I was chasing her (no bueno) and you're not supposed to be aggressive with a denier - I just realized this after the fact. - anyway to rebound from this or just leave it be?

    And 2: what is the best way to handle this situation from now on/ when I see her again. Start from ground zero? I ave realized that I have hooked up with her when we have been around our mutual friends and never when I'm chilling with her and her other guy friends (which makes sense).

    Any suggestions?

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    hometownextra is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: need help with cute girl I have hooked up with in the past but......

    Isolate, isolate, isolate

    Isolate and escalate
    Learn to be a better person not a better player.

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    southern is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: need help with cute girl I have hooked up with in the past but......

    You're saying get her away from the group? If that comes off too aggressive, just back off a little? I have tried this in the past, but it has been tough to get her away from her guy friends. I have had success when it was just the 2 of us.

    Also should I just delay contact until the next time I run into her?

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    Default Re: need help with cute girl I have hooked up with in the past but......

    It is difficult with the party chicks they are very much like ferrets with ADD so figuring them out is always tougher
    Learn to be a better person not a better player.


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