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    Here is a question I have, I've always been able to get women interested in me, even before I started reading up on game and seduction and different theories and techniques. My issue has always been keeping a conversation going, I am pretty tall and above average looks, so I never have trouble getting a girl interested in me, my problem is keeping the attraction going, eventually I will run out of shit to say, what are some good tips in keeping the conversation going, I know its kind of a newbie question but i lost alot of hot chicks because of this.

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    Default Re: need help from an expert

    the single best way to keep from running out of stuff to say is to simply keep the convo focused on the girl/girls though you shouldn't just keep asking a ton of questions, instead ask a playful question about something she mentions and then tease her about it. by using lots of teases and keeping the convo at least 60-75% focused on her I avoid running out of things to say before she does.

    also, keeping interactions under an hour or 2 will help to ensure that you don't run out of material. I have found that it is important to know when to end the interaction. ALWAYS end the interaction on an emotional high. I like to save at least one joke (pre-planned) for when i drop a girl off after a date or for ending the interaction. that way i leave her laughing and she will want to see me again.

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    thx man, I sometimes find that during the silence I try so hard to think of a question to ask that I will end up asking a dumb question and therefor lowering my value. I was just wondering if there was a certain frame or mindset I need to change to fix that, although i like your advice on keeping the focus on her i will try that.

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    look, if she is very interested at all, the girl will also try to avoid "pauses" in the convo, sometimes it is good to use a pause to try and get her to ask a question and thus break the silence. if a girl is very interested in you, she will ask dumb questions to avoid pauses, so you can actually use a pause to gauge her attraction for you. make her be the one who feels like she is losing your interest (not the other way around) sometimes feigning disinterest can get the girl to show her interest (don't do this until after you reach the social hook point) if she try's desperately to keep you engaged then she is really interested, versus if she makes no effort at all to keep you engaged then she isn't interested.

    note that you can force ioi's by using pauses, guage her interest level by how fast she picks the convo back up.

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    Default Re: need help from an expert

    I had some advice about this in my "personal newbie guide" thread. Basically, focus on what interests women. This can be topics about fashion, celebs or most important ... people in general. Make observations about others around you and ask her opinion about people and the way they interact.

    Batman also has a conversation topic thread
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    Default Re: need help from an expert

    Games usually bail me out of these situations.

    I like shaggy, murder, marry....

    Or ask her who's do you think is hotter, Arial from little mermaid or jasmine from Aladdin?

    Or say "let me see your hands... Thank god you don't chew
    these things up because that's such a turnoff" or Neg her for having chewed up nails.

    Or start a game of 21 questions

    This should hold you down for at least an hour lol.


    Happy hunting


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