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    riffman691 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default How do you reply when she says im really sick after the invite..

    So I've never actually received this response in reply to setting up a date..
    Me: ha Ill tell you over a glass of wine, what days are u free this week?
    Her: I'm very sick...so I dont think this week is good for me

    Ok so she had replied many hours later after my text so I didn't reply and I know its not an excuse as she had also put on facebook how horrible she feels. My question is how do I proceed texting her the next day do I say "hey sorry to hear ur sick hope you feel better soon" or not mention it at all or what should be my next move?

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    Default Re: How do you reply when she says im really sick after the invite..

    She is kinda attracted to you but not that much yet.You telegraphed too much interest when you said that:
    Me: ha Ill tell you over a glass of wine, "what days are u free this week?"
    This made her say she was sick.even if she was yh.
    Never reply saying sorry your sick.if a girl gives you a reason(like that) she can't come never follow up with the reason and apologize.
    Whats your next move?.i think even though you are ok with game in general you have being missing a huge puzzle.practicing and going over material from time to time.
    You need to work on your text game and phone game.you can get a girl engaged on some level so i guess you need to be up on this a few times more.

    Remember never stop opening your options and practicing while you can.In a nutshell freeze her out(2 days max) and reengage with this
    saw a girl at xx,she came up to me and claimed i was familiar.same smile..energy

    if she replies
    had to nodd my head the whole time though kept wondering where she had met me...

    then run text game ask her out.
    say the specific time and place and where you will meet her.you may update this thread.

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    riffman691 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: How do you reply when she says im really sick after the invite..

    To update...I texted her the next day
    " You're sick? Well id still make out with you shamelessly. Even if you had the Ebola Virus...no but I really do hope you feel better soon hot cheeto princess" nickname i have her cuz she is obsessed with those things lol
    Anyways i didn't get a response Abs that was yesterday...guessing she probably is really sick!

    For your reengaging text i didn't quite understand it, were there words misSing or what I'm i conveying in that text, i saw a girl that looked like her? Let me know as it got me confused

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    Default Re: How do you reply when she says im really sick after the invite..

    " You're sick?
    You shouldn't have followed up with you're sick?never follow up with the reason or excuse that was given in this case.Not that you shouldn't take women word but in these situations our goal is to create attraction.if you attract her more she will definitely come and see you.

    Well id still make out with you shamelessly.
    you showed too much sexual intent.that kinda dulls attraction.

    Even if you had the Ebola Virus...no but I really do hope you feel better soon
    Woah man you can be very aggressive.yet again this a bit intense.

    She may or may not be sick i think you should move on, and at least talk to other girls,then maybe come back later.

    you are becoming invested in this girl and she may become your one itis.At least you attracted her so open your options

    On the reengaging text it doesn't really fit your dynamic ryt now,because of the text you sent probably the next day before this.what we should focus on is the bad precedence you may have set that you just want to get physical.this is not a bad thing women want to get physical too but we get them there by escalation and amping attraction.

    In a nutshell freeze her out for a while and start gaming a few girls.if you keep sending her texts you may fall flat in the friendzone.Get other girls and practice.

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    Default Re: How do you reply when she says im really sick after the invite..

    Haha I can see what u mean by the intensity of the text and the itntent..but as a side note this isn't the first time I've escalated on her, phone conversations prior to our first meeting, she would bring up sex and I remember I had said something and she replied.."ok now I'm gonna need to change my panties, wait what are u doing right now? " and I released first to show I wasn't desperate. And on our first date we made out and would have probably hooked up if it wasn't for bad logistics.. so anyways I felt that text was appropriate lol knowing this, do I still freeze her out for a few more days then juzt text her something random having nothing to do with being sick or what do u recommend?

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    Default Re: How do you reply when she says im really sick after the invite..

    Hmm not bad but always try to not talk about sex directly like that.if she turns you on and shes giving ios such as laughing at your jokes, putting an effort into her replies or text.just go for the meet up.you said you made out with her which is not bad but being a little bit too intense can make you sort of predictable.like your the sex guy the one who just wants just sex.that hurts attraction sometimes.

    I think you should freeze her out for 2 days max(sarge a bit).then go with something random.you may update this thread.

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    Default Re: How do you reply when she says im really sick after the invite..

    No your right I dont want to be the sex guy necessarily but ive always tried to be the multi dimensional man showing her different things, like when i would drop the banter and sexualized flirting and share genuine things about myself, childhood etc. and listen to her, and she would say "i love when you share things with me" so im sure she sees the other sides of me as well. Ill go ahead and freeze her out then text her monday (im sure by then she wont be sick anymore) and send here something funny or random and then if she responds try going for a meet up. Thanks and Ill update this thread.


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