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Thread: Well it finally happened! But i am in a big pickle.

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    Default Well it finally happened! But i am in a big pickle.

    Alright, well it finally happened, I lost my V-card...but im in a predicament now.

    The girl I hooked up with is probably the hottest girl at my school, definitely a HB9.5, this girl models...never even thought it would have happened but it did.

    So, this girl and my good friend at school like just started going out, like a day ago, they've hooked up before, he met her last semester, they cheated on each other and then stopped talking, and then talked again, on and off on and off. He is like the luckiest guy I know, he probably brought home a girl every time we went out to a party, and every time i went home by myself. His relationships never last longer than a week, hes always arguing with his girls.

    So, we were in his room playing xbox, it was me, him, the HB9.5, our other friend and his girl. The four of us except the HB9.5 were playing xbox, and i could tell she was bored. I look down at my phone and i got a facebook message from her with her number telling me to text her. And shes telling me all this stuff how she only went back with him to make this other girl mad that he went out with before. So then later that night she sends me pics of herself and is asking me to come over, watch a movie, etc. So, i just could not resist, she was too hot and i went over and we hooked up.

    Now shes saying were not going to tell anyone, dont tell him, she thinks im hot but doesnt want to dump him now cause itll make her look bad. We have 1 week in the semester, idk what to do. I feel guilty, but then i dont, hes such a lucky guy.

    I need some help, i cant handle this, i have finals to think about.

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    Default Re: Well it finally happened! But i am in a big pickle.

    Think about your finals let it blow over until after that. Also when you have sex with someone don't advertise the fact anyway..... Bragging to your buddies is a way to insure you won't get more especially if she finds out. On here it is ok we don't know her and will not talk.

    So just play it cool and focus on your finals.

    You have nothing to prove to anyone but yourself, you got laid be content with yourself on that. All your buddys don't need to know every detail. Likewise if they played the cards they where dealt correctly you wouldn't have had your shot. So that being said just keep it as need to know and they don't need to know.

    His loss your gain, besides if the tables where turned he would have done the same.
    Learn to be a better person not a better player.

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    Default Re: Well it finally happened! But i am in a big pickle.

    Sounds like your boy is living it up. It's not "luck".. He's what we refer to as a natural. Anyway... Are they together now? Did you bone your friends girl? Lmao whoa

    In my circle that's no laughing matter, but it seems you guys got the high school drama in full swing. She did it to spite him, which sucks for you.

    It's up to you man... You farked her... Now are you gonna tell him about it? If he finds out another way it would be worse.

    BROS WAY BEFORE HOES... EVEN IF THE HOES ARE HOT AND YOUR BRO IS A LUCKY DOG.

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    Default Re: Well it finally happened! But i am in a big pickle.

    Quote Originally Posted by hometownextra View Post
    Think about your finals let it blow over until after that. Also when you have sex with someone don't advertise the fact anyway..... Bragging to your buddies is a way to insure you won't get more especially if she finds out. On here it is ok we don't know her and will not talk.

    So just play it cool and focus on your finals.

    You have nothing to prove to anyone but yourself, you got laid be content with yourself on that. All your buddys don't need to know every detail. Likewise if they played the cards they where dealt correctly you wouldn't have had your shot. So that being said just keep it as need to know and they don't need to know.
    I'm not really the bragging type, i only told my roommate who i know i can trust, i only told him though for advice, like i did to you guys. He doesnt know what i should do either.

    But no, im not going around saying i slept with this chick.

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    Default Re: Well it finally happened! But i am in a big pickle.

    Quote Originally Posted by ItsJaySonic View Post
    Sounds like your boy is living it up. It's not "luck".. He's what we refer to as a natural. Anyway... Are they together now? Did you bone your friends girl? Lmao whoa

    In my circle that's no laughing matter, but it seems you guys got the high school drama in full swing. She did it to spite him, which sucks for you.

    It's up to you man... You farked her... Now are you gonna tell him about it? If he finds out another way it would be worse.

    BROS WAY BEFORE HOES... EVEN IF THE HOES ARE HOT AND YOUR BRO IS A LUCKY DOG.
    I want to tell him but i just cant, idk how to go about it, idk if he'll bug out and try to snap me i half. I know if i keep it a secret and if he finds out from her itll be really bad. I just dont know what to do. I said to her if we were to tell him then ill do it, she responded with "ohhhhh nononononoooo, dont tell him this is our secret and no one will find out."

    But then i know how girls are and how they talk. I just dont know what to do.

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    Default Re: Well it finally happened! But i am in a big pickle.

    Time for me to be blunt here in a tough love session.

    First off your finals are important.

    When you graduate everyone goes there separate ways so after that point is it going to matter? Who honestly knows


    Bros before hoes, it is such a funny code, I have been burned by it so many times. Simple fact is this life is not fair, life doesn't care about codes of behavior. Everything is far from black and white, right or wrong. Always playing the nice guy gets you nowhere.

    I know this by being stuck on the other side, I let too many opportunities pass because it wasn't socially correct.

    Lastly being faithful based on story above you buddy in my opinion can't throw stones about her cheating if he indeed lives in that glass house himself

    Just chill and ride it out, damage is done at this point. If you want something take it. If you don't want it leave it. Welcome to real life, human nature
    Learn to be a better person not a better player.

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    Default Re: Well it finally happened! But i am in a big pickle.

    Quote Originally Posted by hometownextra View Post
    Time for me to be blunt here in a tough love session.

    First off your finals are important.

    When you graduate everyone goes there separate ways so after that point is it going to matter? Who honestly knows


    Bros before hoes, it is such a funny code, I have been burned by it so many times. Simple fact is this life is not fair, life doesn't care about codes of behavior. Everything is far from black and white, right or wrong. Always playing the nice guy gets you nowhere.

    I know this by being stuck on the other side, I let too many opportunities pass because it wasn't socially correct.

    Lastly being faithful based on story above you buddy in my opinion can't throw stones about her cheating if he indeed lives in that glass house himself

    Just chill and ride it out, damage is done at this point. If you want something take it. If you don't want it leave it. Welcome to real life, human nature
    Wow, hometown, you really just helped me out. I was always that nice guy.

    Anyway yeah that helps me out a lot. Thanks man really do appreciate it.

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    Default Re: Well it finally happened! But i am in a big pickle.

    If I can lead you away from the rough road of being the doormat I am fulfilled that my journey wasn't for nothing.
    Learn to be a better person not a better player.

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    Default Re: Well it finally happened! But i am in a big pickle.

    Quote Originally Posted by hometownextra View Post
    If I can lead you away from the rough road of being the doormat I am fulfilled that my journey wasn't for nothing.
    Elaborate a little, i dont quite get you...

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    Default Re: Well it finally happened! But i am in a big pickle.

    Well the rule is BROS before hoes... Not guys, or acquaintances, or pals or buddies etc.

    There's only 2 guys I consider Bros... Everyone else is not on that level. I would never bone my Bros girl... Ever.

    However... Being a virgin... And her being the queen of the school, I somewhat get it.

    Most people part ways after high school... But not everyone. I don't think it's sound advice for a freshly cherry popped PUA to disregard this rule. Women can make 2 life long friends hate each other in an instant. Fark that.

    That's why there's the almighty system of "dibs"


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