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    Fl3my is offline PUA in Training
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    Default How to handle an ultimatum

    My girl and I are dating for a few months, she complained to me about smoking which today ended in an ultimatum and a harsh talk about our relationship and how do we get a long she said she can pass most of the stuff but the smoking isn't one off them.

    I told her the truth which is I need a night to sleep on it.

    should I just cut her loose, we are not doing so well the last two weeks.

    I realize I failed a test of hers earlier and then all hell broke loose, now she's trying to give me a chance to fix it.
    I'm just not sure if it's worth fixing, I have to figure out how to prevent that from happening again
    any advice?..

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    Default Re: How to handle an ultimatum

    Look man i'll be upfront with you do you still like her?Is it that you don't want loose your power by giving up this area of your life.your girl may be projecting long term and frankly if this is how you are going to continue she doesn't want that.Period.
    If you want to quit in a way thats kinda of alpha fine.Otherwise you know what to do.theres always a way around these things.


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