so ive been text gaming a HB 8-9 on fb.and all seems to be going well. we have the same music taste (metal \,,/). long story short i build enough comfort,trust and attraction and got her to the point of her sending me half naked pictures.she even said that she wanted me and only me.then all the sudden 2 days later she becomes cold and less responsive to my messages. her replies to my messages got longer and longer. she was usually a quick messager. now she would see my message and not respond till like 10mins-1hr later or not respond at all. so im confused on what is happening.was it only lust?.im thinking about using the opener "i don't think we should do this anymore......sometim es you make me feel like i am a piece of meat". to see if she would come crawling back,which backfired on me twice because i didn't have or know a really good follow up. maybe even freezing her out.my recent activity went like this:
me:hey,hows my groupie doing? (a fun flirty opener i made up,worked on another girl)
herseen msg)-no response-
she posts an upsetting status this morning about being called a groupie and fake etc. she was talking about another guy saying those things,but i felt it was also targeted at me.so i messaged her saying;
me:idk if that status was partly for me,but i apologize. you're more tome than just a sex object..
8hrs later and i havent replied back yet.idk what to say yet. i felt like i displayed too much interest and comfort. what mistakes did i make and how could i fix them and the situation?
Any suggestions or advice?