Gonna try to keep this brief but there is a lot to ask and tell...and apologies for not knowing all the terminology yet...

First night out in quite a while...probably drank a bit too much but didn't act a fool...

Number 1.

Approached car in parking lot that had two ladies...early 20s, blonde (hot) and brunette (...attractive...not stunning...) sisters. Told them that a drunk dude on the porch was being obnoxious and I was wondering if I could chat with them for a little while until he wandered off...They laughed about knowing what it was like to have to "escape". Wound up talking with the blonde on the back deck for about 30 minutes. As the seats we were in while talking weren't too close, I didn't feel like I could use kino to my advantage. Told her that her laugh was "loud and obnoxious" but sounded really sincere, which I liked...that it wasn't like the bitchy looking girl across the room. Good use of light neg? Didn't number close but she'll be back when my band plays that bar in a couple of weeks...with her sister and some friends. Felt like I should make myself scarce before I wore out my welcome, so I excused myself and went another direction...thoughts ?

Numero Dos.

Brunette, definitely not a stunner until you consider the tats she was showing off and the body that wore them. Very bitchy..."hated everyone" didn't like anything...totally negative. Didn't know how to direct that in my favor...confusing but full of lessons on how to continue a conversation that I didn't completely agree with...I'm just not that unhappy. How can this be turned into a beneficial situation? Didn't number close but she'll be at the bar when the band plays...

Nombres Trois.

Young girl, brunette, thick (in a very good way) and full of piss and vinegar I believe is the saying. With an older lady who was supposedly her "mother". Don't believe it but didn't question it. As soon as I approached and began talking, she called me out, told me that she had 6 kids, a husband and a boyfriend at home. Told her that I didn't give a damn, I was only there to have a cigarette and enjoy some conversation. Then told her "mother" that if she would shove her off of the railing she was sitting on that I would get it on video and it would go viral. They didn't agree but I think it established an understanding that I didn't care if they liked me or not. She went on a rant about how I was probably gay. I laughed it off and let them say what they wanted to while trying to direct the conversation. It wound up being her accusing me of getting off on talking sh1t and saying that I probably already had a "chubby". I explained that there was a 50/50 chance she was right because either I did, or I didn't and that if she wanted to know, she could damn well find out herself. I think this was the one that could have ended differently. The overtone of the entire conversation was defensive but flirty. She will be at the show on Memorial Day weekend as well.

Numbers 4 and 5

Are two girls that I keep in touch with on the phone...4 is a ten. She's a model and likes having musician and artist friends. There has always been a flirty feel to the conversation because I make sure it stays that way. She is very self sufficient, constantly traveling for events and shows and really only is able to stay in touch through the phone. We did a job together about 6 months back that fell completely to sh1t and have stayed in touch since the disaster. She's a friend but I don't know how to sail this ship out of that friggen harbor. constantly sends me pictures of the costumes and stuff that she gets put into and loves to stay in touch but nothing further...help...I would love to get ahold of this one. I think that I need to exploit my "art" in order to expose hers...she "might" be around for the show on Memorial Day.

5 is a girl I met on FB and have been talking to for a couple of days...could be getting catfished. don't know how we wound up facebook friends because she doesn't have any mutual friends with me but a random chat turned into a phone conversation rather quickly. She is dealing with some heavy stuff right now and is currently traveling from Ft. Lauderdale to Nashville and California by car to visit several gravesites...it's a weird situation but she's cute (if you believe the FB picture) and seems like a nice chick. She might be a bit clingy...I've talked with her for a total of about 3 hours but those three hours have been contained within the last 24. In fact, I have a feeling that she's texting and calling with a particular frequency and is just a bit too nosy about what I'm doing. Top this off with some potentially serious medical problems and I'm wondering if I should "friendzone" her? She will definitely be at the show on memorial day weekend.

I know that I need to work on developing and initializing kino and that my ability to close is piss poor. I have found that my approach is strong and my conversational skills are great. My question whether or not I'm spreading myself too thin? Wouldn't it help to have the deck loaded in my favor on a night where I'm gonna sound sh1t hot on stage? Does a feeling of competition encourage ladies to move faster? What could I have done differently last night to have closed on any of them? Thanks in advance for any advice and good luck to you all...