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Thread: How should I react to this by girl I am non-exclusive with

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    Default How should I react to this by girl I am non-exclusive with

    So last night this girl ive been talking to for awhile (non exclusive) we've only had sex once she doesn't give it up easy comes to the bar to meet up with me. I end up going back home with her when i get back her roommate calls

    her out in front of me saying that last night she had some guy over who was walking around

    the apt naked drunk as hell. this pissed me off cause we were going to meet up last night ha.

    i stayed calm cause i wanted to get laid but she didn't give it up just wanted to go to sleep. i left pretty soon after when she passed out.

    so my question is if she asks why i left is it afc to say "i didn't want to play sleepover when you had a guy in the same spot last night"

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    Default Re: How should I react to this??

    oh yeah she told me she didn't do anything with him.. and that she locked him out of her room. don't know if i believe it but thats what she said.

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    Default Re: How should I react to this??

    Yes. That's actually very AFC. You might as well text her, "I'm a bitch, you win." Stay very far away from text like that amigo.

    I would not say anything about it UNLESS she asks. Don't make it seem like it affected you in anyway. If she does ask use the opportunity to build some attraction for yourself by making it seem like you had something better to do, or that she was boring, etc.. Then use that as an opportunity to transition to taking her out.

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    Default Re: How should I react to this by girl I am non-exclusive with

    You said it isn't exclusive so she is free to see other ppl and so are you. Don't make big deal of it. You can see or sleep with others too. I don't see what the issue is here. If she wanted to see you and you had some other chick you had plans with already you would turn her down so, just don't get all jealous about it, doings so will just insure you don't get anything or worse end it all completely. Just move her lower onYour priority list.
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    Default Re: How should I react to this by girl I am non-exclusive with

    Hmm first of all even if it really happened the girl is not supposed to call her out in-front of you.she is supposed to keep quiet.Thats what girls sometimes are supposed to do.
    you also stated that she doesn't give it up easily.sounds like you may have been pushing too hard.Since you have escalated already drop this one for awhile and date other girls.safe!!

    The problem is she may be loosing attraction to you since she senses all you want is that.Leave her fast.Shake her out of your system and if you meet her again after moving on and your interested.Apply kino while gaming and move things forward.

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    Default Re: How should I react to this by girl I am non-exclusive with

    Just in a casual way tell her that you got a text for a booty call from someone you usually hook up with once a month.

    Raise your value. You two aren't exclusive. Make yourself the prize and how she missed out on an opportunity to be with you. That's the message you will be sending her.

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    Default Re: How should I react to this by girl I am non-exclusive with

    I wouldn't say booty call, just because then she may feel like that's all she is then that may make her feel slutty. I'd say female friend needed someone to talk to because she had something go down... Shows you are valuable to other ladies and not just about getting laid.
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    Default Re: How should I react to this by girl I am non-exclusive with

    damn guys thanks good thing i waited for you guys to respond. she blacked out last night when i left and just texted me "did you leave" ill say someone came and picked me up and went to the party down the street.

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    Default Re: How should I react to this by girl I am non-exclusive with

    she blacked out last night when i left and just texted me "did you leave" ill say someone came and picked me up and went to the party down the street.
    You see your problem seems to be compounding.Currentl y your girl is seeing a pattern. remeber she texted you "did you leave" that may have been a sh1t test.

    If it was me i may move on to a few girls and come back later(2 days max).on your journey you should practice kino some more.You need to change your end game a bit.when ever you get are alone there she knows you guys are there for that and after a while it not exciting.think of doing activities outside the room and then maybe new place to have that.

    Am sure she may be turned on before you get to the room but trust me with women the tiniest detail counts a lot.

    At least she texted you to say did you leave.this is a good thing like i said but also a sh1t test kind of.you need to blow the bounty of you before in her mind you permanently become that guy.its like the friend zone but then you think she likes you but then .it may not happen but yh.

    ill say someone came and picked me up and went to the party down the street.
    woah man this sounds kind of cool but you already kind of have something with this girl.the dynamic is diffrent.just tell her since her eyes were closed, you decided to go and do one thing you wanted to do..
    This should let her know you have things to do you are motivated and don't take such behavior. Sublty communicates you have things going on for you.

    if you went to a party its not a bad thing but she can think you slept with someone .This is not bad but all she did was pass out.

    Since you guys are not official don't forget to open your options up if you will.PEACE

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    Default Re: How should I react to this by girl I am non-exclusive with

    [QUOTE=HardRock;95790]she blacked out last night when i left and just texted me "did you leave" ill say someone came and picked me up and went to the party down the street.
    You see your problem seems to be compounding.Currentl y your girl is seeing a pattern. remeber she texted you "did you leave" that may have been a sh1t test.

    If it was me i may move on to a few girls and come back later(2 days max).on your journey you should practice kino some more.You need to change your end game a bit.when ever you get are alone there she knows you guys are there for that and after a while it not exciting.think of doing activities outside the room and then maybe new place to have that.

    Am sure she may be turned on before you get to the room but trust me with women the tiniest detail counts a lot.

    At least she texted you to say did you leave.this is a good thing like i said but also a sh1t test kind of.you need to blow the bounty of you before in her mind you permanently become that guy.its like the friend zone but then you think she likes you but then .it may not happen but yh.

    What happened was i was in her room I made a move on her we made out for a bit but it wasn't going anywhere from there. and i didn't feel like sleeping over so i left. I can see what you're saying about it being a shit test cause like i said she doesn't give it up easy and it took me 2 months of playing the sleepover game with her before she caved... damn


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