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    Default Asking a girl on a second date!

    Hi all,

    So this is my story so far. I met a girl online about a month ago and we got on quite well. So I asked her out and last Friday we went out for drinks. She was lovely and we had a good time. She was laughing at my jokes and she was asking me lot of questions - I generally got the impression she was interested. At the end of the night we agreed to text each other and we have exchanged a few text messages since.

    With my previous girls, after the first date there will be a lot of text messages which tells me the girls are really interested and therefore I was confident enough to ask them out. But with this girl the text messages are a little bit infrequent. But importantly it was the same before we went out on the date. So I don't think infrequent text messages are a sign of her changing her mind. She did tell me that she is quite a busy girl - she is invovled in lot of different projects.

    So my question is where would I go from here. I mean I want to ask her out again but I want her to want me to ask her out. How can I make her bit more pro-active.

    I will appreciate any advice you could give me!
    Thanks you.

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    Default Re: Asking a girl on a second date!

    If you want her to want you to ask her out, you have to build up that kind of attraction during your in person interactions. Don't rely on text because people are busy, people have a tendency not to respond, etc.. Unless you're a pro texter that is (which I'm not by any means).

    It'd be nice to get some more background information like what you texted her and how much time has passed since you hung out. I would say text her or call her and after talking for a little ask her out. Check out T-mals texting guide and Gun's and Glory's texting guide.

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    Default Re: Asking a girl on a second date!

    Then don't interact with texts use them only to set up the next date. I hate texts other than for setting stuff up. Don't be a bitch about it either you shouldn't ask when she is free. Set it up as a statement. I am going (place) (day) (time) meet me there (hook line)

    By hook line I mean something that gives your plans value. IE it is going to be fun, I want to see if you can out bowl me, you get the idea linking it to where you are going makes hook line better.
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    Default Re: Asking a girl on a second date!

    Thanks for the advice guys,

    Let me elaborate bit further. So last texts we exchanged were last night. She was doing this Charity Event yesterday evening.

    My text: It's going to be very wet tonight. Hope you didn't forget your umbrella. By the way it was lovely meeting you, I had a great time. xx

    Her reply: Yes I am soaked!! HaHa!! Was lovely meeting you too xx

    My final reply: Well you will be happy to know that I am warm and my room is dry. And I am about enjoy a hot cup coffee..mmmm Do keep up the good work! xx

    So that was last night and I haven't had a reply yet. I was reading the threads you reccomended...with my last text I didn't really have a HOOK. So I wonder should I just text her and ask her how her charity event went?

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    Default Re: Asking a girl on a second date!

    No save that for in person filler conversation

    Keep texts short and engaging or to set up face time

    Too mundane of subject in will only get ok or fine as a response.
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