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Thread: Help: Things are going in reverse

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    Default Help: Things are going in reverse

    This is my first time here, so sorry if I make newbie mistakes, but need help with this girl. I will try to keep as short as possible.

    She's a friend of friend, met her mutually over drinks, flirting and physical contact ensued, she was into me. Tailed off at end of night, due to atmosphere and other friends in the picture so we went separate ways. Month later, see her at an event and she pretty much latches on, we go drink pretty hard and heavy makeout and fondle, no sex. Exchange numbers. I played the text game pretty well IMO (Negs, time lapse, sexual flirting). Mid week date; bikes and beers, 4 hour ended with a decent kiss. She was legit busy as was I. A week and half later we link up, sat afternoon. I only text her like twice in that time period. I take her shooting, huge turn on for her. We continue playful sexual banter. She takes me to see her art at a local museum. Then we do apps and drinks. She comes back to my place around 7 and says she is tired, drank too much night before and is going home to sleep. She just picks up her purse and asks me to walk her to car. I tell her I'm not walking to car. She laughs, leaves then comes back. I repeat to her in not a mean but a joking and controlling way that I am not walking her to car. In that split decision, I was deciding that she wasn't going to have control and I wasn't happy about getting a cheap walk to car kiss after all that. So she leaves and its kind of a negative note to an otherwise good date. The deal is I don't want a real relationship with her, I am also dating other women. I want to have her as an option and escalate this situation. I don't know if she is into me or if I am getting friend zoned. My friend seems to think that its cause she wants a relationship not just a hook up. Note: she is very much like a guy in dating sense. She tells me she hates romantic movies and was turned off when other guys got clingy. I have initiated all contact, although really she initiated the first and second time we met in person. We've only text 4 times in two half weeks, short flirty and with a direction for a date so I don't think its to much by any means

    My question is:
    Whats the next move? Ignore and wait for her? A week? Two weeks? Chalk up to a loss? Text her like nothing happened? Explain my disappointment? Follow up with her like it was a good date?

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    Default Re: Help: Things are going in reverse

    you should have just walked her to her car, be a gentleman. Sometimes I think people take the "compliance test" to seriously. Obviously if you want to continue with her you're going to have to contact her, don't even bring up the situation, and don't set an amount of time to wait just text her whenever.
    "Act like you're interested, not like you care."

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    Default Re: Help: Things are going in reverse

    Quote Originally Posted by Thatoneguyonforums View Post
    you should have just walked her to her car, be a gentleman. Sometimes I think people take the "compliance test" to seriously. Obviously if you want to continue with her you're going to have to contact her, don't even bring up the situation, and don't set an amount of time to wait just text her whenever.

    Good call... thanks for the advice


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