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Thread: Dating several girls, what to do?

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    Default Dating several girls, what to do?

    Alright, I'm still technically new to the game, but I've coasted by with a little natural skill and now have put myself in a position I've never been in.

    I'm starting to date several women at once. I've made it clear that I'm not looking to be labeled gf/bf but they'll occasionally ask if I've been with anyone else recently. I tell them no but it's getting harder to lie, especially as we become closer, and I don't particularly like it.

    Do I start telling them the truth? and if so, how?

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    Default Re: Dating several girls, what to do?

    Nope.you need to select one that you resonate with on the long term.if you want casual you have to limit the number of times you see them and check the content of your convo.don't treat them like a girlfriend.In your case its best to hyper focus on the one you have the most feelings for.

    The rest apply reduced to stopping communication.that should send the message.they may chase you for a while but they will get it.In a nutshell having a deep affair with one girl is best.unless they are your friends and you give the sex once in a while.that way it casual.here emotions are involved.Tread cautiously.

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    Default Re: Dating several girls, what to do?

    You can date several women at once if you wish to do so, you shouldn't really lie though.

    http://www.puaforums.com/dating-advi...tionships.html

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    Default Re: Dating several girls, what to do?

    Quote Originally Posted by Bballking View Post
    Alright, I'm still technically new to the game, but I've coasted by with a little natural skill and now have put myself in a position I've never been in.

    I'm starting to date several women at once. I've made it clear that I'm not looking to be labeled gf/bf but they'll occasionally ask if I've been with anyone else recently. I tell them no but it's getting harder to lie, especially as we become closer, and I don't particularly like it.

    Do I start telling them the truth? and if so, how?
    It sounds as though the girls are expecting it to go somewhere that you're not willing to go. If you're not planning on being in a relationship with them you need to make that abundantly clear.

    There's no need to tell them that you've been with other people if you frame the relationship correctly. If it's clear that it isn't a committed relationship then they won't/ are less likely to, ask those sorts of questions. If it comes up just say something like, "we're not committed so I'd rather we just don't talk about it. I know you'll be with other people but I'd just be happier not discussing it" turn it back on her.

    The above advice is basically how I managed to get fuck buddies in the past. Even with quite respectable girls. The truth is always the best policy but just be mindful of how you deliver it.

    If you'd framed the relationships more clearly from the start you wouldn't have that problem.

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    Default Re: Dating several girls, what to do?

    Quote Originally Posted by sidewinder89 View Post
    There's no need to tell them that you've been with other people if you frame the relationship correctly. If it's clear that it isn't a committed relationship then they won't/ are less likely to, ask those sorts of questions. If it comes up just say something like, "we're not committed so I'd rather we just don't talk about it. I know you'll be with other people but I'd just be happier not discussing it" turn it back on her.
    Thanks guys for the advice, good from both sides. This is what I was kind of looking for at the moment. I framed it and made it clear at the beginning but they still ask and I typically fall through their hoop and find myself defending. This should help in the future.


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