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Thread: Confused about how this girl feels about me..Friend zoned?

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    Default Confused about how this girl feels about me..Friend zoned?

    Hey everyone, this is my first post on this forum ever and I thank you all in advance for any advice you have to offer.

    So theres this girl who im fallin for and am confused about what she thinks about me. Here is a little background information...

    So we used to talk a lot but kinda drifted apart for a few years and now I recently started talking to her again, We laugh a lot together and I don't really have a problem making her laugh she always acknowledges me first when we see each other around. There was one instance when I was about to leave and she called me over to take a picture with her right before we took the picture she recommended that I put my arm around her...so either this was just because it would look weird if I didn't in a picture or she wanted me to touch her..One day she wanted to grab a bite to eat across the street from our school and we were sitting at a table in school along with a few other people, she claimed she didn't wanna seem like a "loser" by going by herself so I offered to go along the way we had a great conversation... was I acting too clingy in this situation aswell by offering to go with her should I have not said anything?.She has also called me cutie one day and another time called me sweet for holding open a door for her. I make eye contact about 90% of the time when I talk to her (the 10% I don't is when she looks away after a while and I do too, then she looks back and we resume eye contact) but I have yet to try the Triangle Gaze Method (I think that's what it's called does it really work?)...we have a lot in common, we share the same career interests, we want to travel to the same places and much more.



    So my question is...Does it sound like I'm being friendzoned? let me know if you guys need more info about the story and I will add more...I feel like because we share so much in common and she has called me "buddy before" and never intiatates conversations over facebook and text that maybe she's not interested and that I'm coming off as too clingy which will probably put me in the friend zone...but at the same time she called me cute..sweet and a gentlemen...I'm way too nice and feel like I'm on the edge of getting friend zoned, how do I make my intentions clear? I don't want to ask her out unless I'm 100% sure she feels the same way about me because I think I have something special here and don't wanna mess it up...any help would be much appreciated

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    Default Re: Confused about how this girl feels about me..Friend zoned?

    She obviously likes you- otherwise she wouldn't have said she didn't want to go eat lunch alone, she wanted you to come.

    She called you a cutie? How many more IOI's do you need?

    Just get physical with her!

    Touch her, and just kiss her!

    Jeez how hard is that?

    (Just realized this is in the expert forum, I am no expert, but I do feel qualified to answer this question)
    .-* WWWEEE *-.

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    Default Re: Confused about how this girl feels about me..Friend zoned?

    I guess I should just grow a pair and ask....Thanks for the answer though haha

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    Default Re: Confused about how this girl feels about me..Friend zoned?

    And any tips for getting physical? is there a thread somewhere I should read?

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    Default Re: Confused about how this girl feels about me..Friend zoned?

    If your intentions are to date her, you have to act like it. Don't just sit around waiting for things to happen. Take some initiative and go and get it done. Take her out on a date, flirt with her, and kino. The comfort and rapport are there, now you just need attraction. If you need tips on how to ask her out there are a ton of threads on this site, or you can just post back here asking. You don't want to waste too much more time or else you will get friendzoned.

    Lastly, I understand that you guys have a lot of common interests and you like her, but you went down the wrong path. You fell for her before anything ever happened. You don't want to fall for a girl (oneitis) to early because you get attached to the result, and it can leave you feeling devastated if things don't go so well. Now's your chance. Start taking risks and see where this goes no matter what the result may be. You don't need her to like you for you to ask her out because you could potentially be waiting for ever. Do you my friend. Good luck!

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    Default Re: Confused about how this girl feels about me..Friend zoned?

    Thanks for all the help guys I'm probably just gonna man up and ask her soon...within the next few weeks

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    Default Re: Confused about how this girl feels about me..Friend zoned?

    One thing you can do is after you have read,you can go to a new place and game some girls for practice.You should at least try to kiss close them when you begin getting iois.don't be attached to the outcome.you can get the job done.After that then on to your girl.


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