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    Default How to game a tray line server in a cafeteria or a cashier in a supermarket

    1. I often go to a cafeteria nearby to have meals. A female tray line server is pretty. We flirt a little bit. The question is, how can I ask her out? I don't know how to get her number because her colleagues including her boss are always there. And there are other customers. I feel shy to ask her number in front of her colleagues and other customers. Also she may feel shy to give me her number in the presence of her colleagues and other customers. What can I do?

    2. Almost the same as case 1. It is a female cashier in a supermarket in my neighborhood. I visit that supermarket from time to time. How can I get her number?

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    Default Re: How to game a tray line server in a cafeteria or a cashier in a superma

    Hey buddy,

    Sorry nobody has helped you out yet... But here's what I would do.

    Make business cards. Go to www.vistaprints.com... They will give you 250 cards for FREE. I use my cards for all kinds of pickups... But it seems ideal for these lunchroom/server situations your describing. They are quick and don't put her under any pressure to give you her number in front of colleagues.

    Just make sure you use a confident line when you give it to her.

    "thanks for the food (name), this is for you (hand her card) you better use it (wink) " with a cheeky smile on your face the whole time.

    She will take it and it will be her choice to contact you at her leisure.
    "You have to let them know what kind of man you are, so they will know what kind of girl to be" - MadMen

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    Default Re: How to game a tray line server in a cafeteria or a cashier in a superma

    This evening I went to the lunchroom. The female tray line server said to me, "Hey, long time no see. (Where were you recently?) Did you go to pick up girls?"

    I sensed that it was an opportunity for me to respond to her with a witty answer and engage her in a "meaningful" dialogue. But on the spot, I didn't have the wisdom to instantly come up with a good reply. I just ignored her words as if I didn't hear them. If it was you, how would you reply?

    Her words were an IOI, following the mystery method, I should have given her a compliance test, what compliance test could I give on the spot? You know, her colleagues and other customers were also there.

    I think the problem lies in that I didn't know how to think, even if I came up with a reply, I didn't know if it was a correct reply or not because simply I didn't know what criteria I could use to judge if my reply was a correct one.

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    Default Re: How to game a tray line server in a cafeteria or a cashier in a superma

    I am so amazed that some guys can always improvise a witty reply. To me, I feel it is impossible. Maybe I am a slow thinker. I know that we should always lead a dialogue, but what guiding principle should I use to lead a dialogue? It is like that I meet a boat in the sea. First, I don't know where I should bring the boat to or what direction I should bring the boat to; second, I don't know what means I can use to tow the boat.

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    Default Re: How to game a tray line server in a cafeteria or a cashier in a superma

    Your problem is you think too much. You can't be afraid to fuck up You're the prize dude, flirt with all girls and this one singular girl won't matter. It takes practice eventually you'll get more natural at it

    Fuck it dawg life's alright go get em

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    Default Re: How to game a tray line server in a cafeteria or a cashier in a superma

    The principle that guides us to interact with girls is that we choose to believe that we are precious creatures/prizes and all girls, overtly or covertly, want to approach us and get us. This is the frame that we use to talk to a girl. As long as our words fit this frame, it is correct, otherwise, it is not correct.

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    Default Re: How to game a tray line server in a cafeteria or a cashier in a superma

    Not every girl will want your d. That attitude makes you less genuine. You just gotta recognize your value as a human being - your well-being and/or identity are not based off what a certain girl thinks about you. Or anyone else for that matter. So try to have some fun with it. Sometimes you're gonna fuck up and say the wrong thing, as long as you're respecting her as a person and giving her space when she asks who gives a shit. Don't be so worried about pissing people off. They'll get over it. Don't be afraid to make your presence known. Take up space and shake things up. Do it unapologetically. That's the principle.


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