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    Default vacation girls dont answer

    hey, so this is the story, I have been in a students vacation in my country for three days, it was awesome and I was with two girls, one is HB6 and the other was HB8, the HB6 I met on the second day at the evening party, we made out and everything and talked alot about each other, she looked like a really quality girl,she intreduced me to her friends and bought me drinks. then we both went back to our seperate rooms,then she calls me in the morning the next day telling me to go with her to some pool party but I couldnt make it. in the third day I met the HB8 we made out for like two hours in the pool then we went back to her hotel and had some dry sex, then her friends came so we had to stop, I talked with her and the friends for like half an hour then I had to go back to catch the plane back home, I thought everything went awefully good with both of them but for some reason both of them did not answer my call 48 hours after nor my text message, I think they just used me for the night or something, does this kind of things happen alot?
    I have to know if its me or those girls are just looking to have fun for the night and dont want a serious relationship. (I consider myself a very good looking quality guy I have my own place and car, I study at a very good university so I really need your advice here guys thanks!).
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    Default Re: vacation girls dont answer

    I would expect they probably have boyfriends back home and is why they are not answering. They are hiding something or just wanted it for a one night stand and not interested in more

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sandrager View Post
    I would expect they probably have boyfriends back home and is why they are not answering. They are hiding something or just wanted it for a one night stand and not interested in more
    First off thank you for your fast respond, but If it is the second option the question is: do you think it is because of me or it is just because they came to the vacation with that thought in the first place? I really need to hear what you guys think so I can learn my lesson.
    btw, if they have boyfriends at home why both of them intreduced me to their friends?
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    Default Re: vacation girls dont answer

    When girls go on vacation, it's an escape. I agree with Sandrager... they are in an exotic atmosphere. Even if they have a bf at home or not, it's more of a one night stand kind of thing considering it's wild and adventurous. They didn't go there expecting to find something lasting.

    Don't take it personal, take it as an accomplishment that you were able to hook up with two girls on vacation.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mr8Hyde6 View Post
    When girls go on vacation, it's an escape. I agree with Sandrager... they are in an exotic atmosphere. Even if they have a bf at home or not, it's more of a one night stand kind of thing considering it's wild and adventurous. They didn't go there expecting to find something lasting.

    Don't take it personal, take it as an accomplishment that you were able to hook up with two girls on vacation.
    well thanks man, I think I have to agree but is there anything I can do to avoid this kind of things in my next vacations, and one more question does clubs and vacations are similar in that sense? (of not looking for something serious)
    *I am asking that because I could not find one serious relationship with a girl I wanted in both clubs and vacations so maybe I need to start looking at other places?
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    Depends what kind of clubs and it depends on the girl. I have met girls at clubs that wanted more than just hook ups, but they are typically local clubs... You also have to realize if you go to a bigger club like in a major city, some girls are there once in a blue moon because they live so far away.
    Not many people want a long distance kinda thing.

    Also, on vacation, it really depends on what the girl is looking for. If she lives close to you, or whatever.

    I actually dated a girl for 3 years after meeting her in the Dominican Republic, but that was ONLY because she lived in the same state as me and like a 45 min drive away.

    So, again, anything can be possible.

    Is there something specific you can say to make her text you when you leave from vacation, not sure. With the girl I met that lived in the same area, we made plans to hang out when we got. But that was what worked for me and won't be every case out there.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mr8Hyde6 View Post
    Depends what kind of clubs and it depends on the girl. I have met girls at clubs that wanted more than just hook ups, but they are typically local clubs... You also have to realize if you go to a bigger club like in a major city, some girls are there once in a blue moon because they live so far away.
    Not many people want a long distance kinda thing.

    Also, on vacation, it really depends on what the girl is looking for. If she lives close to you, or whatever.

    I actually dated a girl for 3 years after meeting her in the Dominican Republic, but that was ONLY because she lived in the same state as me and like a 45 min drive away.

    So, again, anything can be possible.

    Is there something specific you can say to make her text you when you leave from vacation, not sure. With the girl I met that lived in the same area, we made plans to hang out when we got. But that was what worked for me and won't be every case out there.
    I live in a very small country (Israel) both girls live 10-20 minutes away from me, I get what you are saying althogh both this girls are studing at uni and have decent jobs(atleast that what they told me), maybe its just my lack of expirience that is talking right now idk.
    *Tbh I feel really bad atm, like a boy toy or something its disgusting, one of them bought me drinks and the other made out with me for hours I really cant logically understand how girls can have no emotions what so ever its not like we are 18 they were 23 and 24 years old.
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    Default Re: vacation girls dont answer

    Hi,
    Well don't take it personal but take this as a learning lesson. When you are on vacation expect that if you hook up with a girl nothing will happen. I think you had set expectations and now are you sad because of it. You have your mind set on these 2 girls and that is the problem. Start meeting new people now and you will forget about them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sandrager View Post
    Hi,
    Well don't take it personal but take this as a learning lesson. When you are on vacation expect that if you hook up with a girl nothing will happen. I think you had set expectations and now are you sad because of it. You have your mind set on these 2 girls and that is the problem. Start meeting new people now and you will forget about them.
    Yea you are totally right bro, I know those stuff already but I guess I had so much fun with them so that is why I am a bit sad, it is alright I will be back on track this weekend already hopefully get some new HBs.
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