Hi, I'm new to the forum, as you can see.
I guess it's worth saying that my background is very different from most of you here. It's conservative and religious, I'm religious also, which I think doesn't go well with most of what the members feel, but I'm sure you can help me still. (I'm not from the US)
Even though I'm religoius and somewhat conservative that hasn't stopped me from reading some books and being fascinated by them (Dan's Sex God Method and My Secret Garden) and reading in general about Alpha Male behavior has changed my outlook and my life for the better when I tried hard to implement it past month or two.
Sorry for the long intro. I am currently in a relationship and there are some strong connections between me and my woman, but I want to know how to deal with this. We agreed to meet on Wendsday but few days ago she says it had to be shifted to Tuesday since there was something important she forgot about, I said I didn't like my appointements changed but I agreed anyway. Yesterday she called me in the morning and said she can't be free in the afternoon and instead we'll meet at evening. I told her I'll talk to her later. I sent her a text telling her I'll meet her next week, then I sent her a text telling her to call me when she wakes up (I knew she was sleeping) (I sent that next text mostly because I realize it was out of her hand and I also miss her )
This was 2pm, and she didn't call me all day. I was kind of annoyed. I realize later that the issue was out of her hand but for some reason I still feel like I'm losing power, as if I'm trying to do everything to fit her schedule or her family's (Also I'm calling her more than she calls me although we always have fun on the phone).
So how do I go about this? I need some negative reinforcement but I can't whine because that'll give her more power! I was thinking of just not picking up her calls for a few days. And then after that calling her and continuing the relationship as nothing happened. Or should I wait for an apologetic text? (at this point of the relationship it's possible)
Sorry for the long thread, but I've visited this forum a couple of times before, and I know some of you may know how to deal with this, and sorry for the long intro but I also said because I realize some solutions aren't applicable in my case.