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    Rusty_York is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Can this be done or is it impossible?

    OK here is the deal. I saw a girl I used to see around town on OKC. I always had kind of a crush on her and I want to message her.

    here is where this gets NUCKING FUTS! She is a distant friend, and she works with my ex's mom. An ex with whom things did not end well.

    Can this be done?! Is there some way where I can message this girl and still have a chance? I'm not sure she will know who I am right away. But then again she may.

    Opinions? Tips? Advice?
    Help me out guy's! I know its AFC but I kind of want this one.

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    Default Re: Can this be done or is it impossible?

    You miss 100% of the balls you don't swing at. The only way to know is to try. Don't assume she won't know who you are, but act like it's not a big deal. Odds are that if any communication went from ex --> ex's mom --> her it was probably pretty limited. Open saying you've seen her around town and have always admired her from afar. Worst that can happen is that she doesn't respond.
    you are a soul playing a game of human
    might as well unlock all the secret areas

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    Default Re: Can this be done or is it impossible?

    I have seen ths question before, and as I have said before, a situation like this can be turned around to severely be in your advantage. You can check out my post here for the lowdown on what to do.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    Rusty_York is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Can this be done or is it impossible?

    Quote Originally Posted by HunterKiller View Post
    You miss 100% of the balls you don't swing at. The only way to know is to try. Don't assume she won't know who you are, but act like it's not a big deal. Odds are that if any communication went from ex --> ex's mom --> her it was probably pretty limited. Open saying you've seen her around town and have always admired her from afar. Worst that can happen is that she doesn't respond.
    Wouldent that be afc tho to tell her that I've admired her from afar? Like giving her all the power? idk I'm kind of a noob at this

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    Default Re: Can this be done or is it impossible?

    I would classify it as an IOI.
    you are a soul playing a game of human
    might as well unlock all the secret areas

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    Default Re: Can this be done or is it impossible?

    There's no such thing as impossible in PUA. There's only failure and success. Both are good in their own way. Go out and find out. Like HunterKiller said, you'll never know unless you try and talk to her.
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!


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