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    sidewinder89 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Very Confused by This Behaviour?!

    Ok so I went on a date last night to a nice cocktail bar with an HB8 I met on POF. There was a lot of sexual tension I kinoed a lot and there was definitely a comfortable back and fourth...

    I walked her back to the station, we made out for a few minutes tongues and all, just outside the station and there was a lingering hand hold from her as she went to leave so I pulled her back and kissed her again. Then we said our goodbyes and she went home telling me to text her when I get in.

    I got home, text her a little nothing too serious she said she enjoyed the kiss then just stopped replying.

    I'm baffled, the date was good I've looked at my texts and there's nothing needy or out of the ordinary for our conversations so I don't get why she's suddenly not interested? Am i being played?

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    Default Re: Very Confused by This Behaviour?!

    Maybe a sh1t test to see how you react when she doesn't initiate. Just don't lose your cool and wait. If you initiate then you fail.

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    Default Re: Very Confused by This Behaviour?!

    if i may what were the text(s) / replie(s) that were sent? and did u do as she said - text her when u "get in" ?

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    Default Re: Very Confused by This Behaviour?!

    Never mind she texted me haha...

    Our last few texts were:

    Me: Yeah, I'm soaked proably should have stolen that pink umbrella to match my newly acquired shade of lipstick..

    Her: Aww well I'm sure I'd dry you off and warm you up pretty quickly if I was there! Yeah sorry about that, I was going to tell you but you looked so cute with that shade haha.

    Me: Well I don't have any towels you'd have to get creative! I know, a guy on the train asked me "was she good?", I was like "who?" ... "the girl you pulled mate, you're wearing her lippy!" : thanks for that!

    Her: Oh come on the kiss was definitely worth a little embarrassment? did you go all red? You don't have towels, well we'll have to share body heat then, do want you catching cold do we?

    Me: Maaaybe, I haven't decided yet I think I'll need a few more to find out. No no I wore my shade with pride, I made it work. Now that's a deal, shotgun big spoon.

    Then nothing till like 3 today?

    It appears I may like this girl a lot more than I thought hahaha. Help guys, I have a habit of getting attached to girls I like, hence my very AFC panic this morning... happens to the best of us.

    I know the theory for not going in overly keen but it would help me if you guys could re-iterate it... I want to smash it into my brain and it will be more effective coming from someone else haha.

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    Default Re: Very Confused by This Behaviour?!

    Damn she sounds quality. Sounds like she has a rapier wit. I love the "shotgun big spoon", that was class. But maybe that was what she was giving you the shit test for?

    A lot of women are learning about PUA tactics these days- she might even know and have recognized any or every trick you pulled; if this is the case, she's playing along because she's enjoying it. That's a good sign.

    A girl like that is going to put you through a loop (but is worth every second I'm sure). Expect tumult and pick your battles. When someone is really high-league, I find it helpful to tell myself I am as attractive and witty as her- no more, no less. It's rare for me to find someone that really thrills me, but when I do, we dance.
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    Default Re: Very Confused by This Behaviour?!

    she probs was just busy or didn't wanna insta text so she delayed it

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    Default Re: Very Confused by This Behaviour?!

    Yeah she likes you dude. Just stay level headed and play the game the way I know you know how to play it. Seems like smooth sailing from here. You'll be fine.

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    Default Re: Very Confused by This Behaviour?!

    Just keep it interesting. Don't just keep chasing her, make her invest in you too
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