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    Default Girl says one thing but does another

    Hello,

    I met this girl 8 months ago, we dated for a long time but nothing happened until last week where we had sex of Saturday and slept together.

    Background: The woman is 34, she had 2 long term relationships, she has been single for 3 years but she is feeling good and having fun for the past year or so and doesn't want a relationship.

    Current situation: Saturday was the first time we had sex, then we meat again on Sunday with no sex but all hugs and kisses, Monday we didn't meet, Tuesday I went her place had sex and cuddled all night and last night the same thing. Note that all times she contact me and the sex is more than good.

    The problem: I never asked for a relationship or anything more than what we currently have so I just go with the flow. She told me the past two days twice that I shouldn't fall in love with her because she doesn't want to hurt me and that she still doesn't want a relationship. So she says all this stuff but she acts as in she is in love e.g. kissing my hands while sleeping, cuddling all night, holding my hands in bed, looking into my eyes and kiss and all that stuff! I offered to leave after sex but she always wants me to stay.

    Is she just enjoying my company and utilizing me to the full to extract certain experiences or does she do it because she really means it?

    Thanks

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    Default Re: Girl says one thing but does another

    You have to feel out the situation because I can ultimately only give you so much. Take what I say with a grain of salt because I could be completely wrong.

    Sounds to me like she's trying to verbally say one thing in hopes of keeping her mind in check. She thinks by repeatedly saying that she's not looking for anything serious will keep her from falling for you. Actions speak a lot louder than words though. Keep feeling out the situation and analyzing when she contacts you. Is she calling you to check on you, see what you're doing, etc, or is she just calling for sex.

    Ultimately, what's more important is your state mind. What are you looking to get from this girl, because it really doesn't matter what she wants. Do you want a relationship or just a fuck buddy?

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    Default Re: Girl says one thing but does another

    1. She does contact me throughout the day with sms email FB or phone from morning until evening.
    2. She never asked for sex, most of the times she says there is not going to be any sex just sleep together because she is tired but then she gets turned on and jumps me.
    3. She was impressed with the sex skills
    4. I never ever contact her, she always contacts me, she doesn't even give me the chance to contact her since she does it first.
    5. Last night she said that she needs to stay away from me for a week so she detoxifies, but then she took it back.

    Does this info confirm what you said?

    I would like to be with her so I would say lets not make anything official and lets just go with the flow with all possibilities open!

    Quote Originally Posted by lilsting View Post
    You have to feel out the situation because I can ultimately only give you so much. Take what I say with a grain of salt because I could be completely wrong.

    Sounds to me like she's trying to verbally say one thing in hopes of keeping her mind in check. She thinks by repeatedly saying that she's not looking for anything serious will keep her from falling for you. Actions speak a lot louder than words though. Keep feeling out the situation and analyzing when she contacts you. Is she calling you to check on you, see what you're doing, etc, or is she just calling for sex.

    Ultimately, what's more important is your state mind. What are you looking to get from this girl, because it really doesn't matter what she wants. Do you want a relationship or just a fark buddy?


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