I met this girl 8 months ago, we dated for a long time but nothing happened until last week where we had sex of Saturday and slept together.
Background: The woman is 34, she had 2 long term relationships, she has been single for 3 years but she is feeling good and having fun for the past year or so and doesn't want a relationship.
Current situation: Saturday was the first time we had sex, then we meat again on Sunday with no sex but all hugs and kisses, Monday we didn't meet, Tuesday I went her place had sex and cuddled all night and last night the same thing. Note that all times she contact me and the sex is more than good.
The problem: I never asked for a relationship or anything more than what we currently have so I just go with the flow. She told me the past two days twice that I shouldn't fall in love with her because she doesn't want to hurt me and that she still doesn't want a relationship. So she says all this stuff but she acts as in she is in love e.g. kissing my hands while sleeping, cuddling all night, holding my hands in bed, looking into my eyes and kiss and all that stuff! I offered to leave after sex but she always wants me to stay.
Is she just enjoying my company and utilizing me to the full to extract certain experiences or does she do it because she really means it?